When it comes to this:
You will be closely monitored by congregation elders to how you dress, the length of you hair
I have something to add to this thought. One will also see double standards depending on who you are and who you are connected to. While one sister can get away with wearing big dangly earrings and a tight leather skirt, but then they turn around and "council" another because she wore something inappropriate such as a denim knee-length skirt. Yes, this happened to me and my friend. My friend happened to be an elder's daughter.
Here are some more to the list;
Constantly being told to put on the "new personality".
Elders actually prying into a couple's sex life and making them feel guilty about it.
If you are not doing everything for Jehovah (aka The Watchtower) you won't make it into the new system. If you slack up at the last moment, you could still die at Armageddon.
Armageddon is right around the corner.
We are in the final parts of the last days.