I think all of you are nuts
"13. No dating Christians or anyone not a JW"
Of course JWs can date Christians. They are the ones in the congregation.
And they are allowed to date Non-JWs.
They can do many things on your lists.
They can be armed security guards. Just because in the past there was a superstition about it does not mean that thinking people hold to everyone's superstition. I would not be a security guard because it is a boring job. But if I were one, I would be like Macguyver and choose not to use guns, not because of a religion but because I feel that guns are for cowards.