"what's the WTS going to say about this scripture when the number or partakers at the Memorial reaches 144,000?"
The number of partakers are a few or a handful.
The ones at the memorial eating and drinking are posers. They pose as anointed because they think that they are or want to be. That is not how it works.
Since 1995 the number means nothing.
"The 144,000 are all men....no womenses"
No. The 144,000 are not all men.
It says they are virgins because they have not been defiled with women. But is sex with women something that defiles one? God created sex so it can't be a bad thing in itself.
The High priest could only marry a virgin. Jesus as the high priest could only have a bridge that is a virgin. But not in the physical sense, but in the spiritual sense.