WishingLiz

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  Are Jehovahs Witnesses a Cult? NO! Of course not. Let us explain.

  by Comatose in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  http://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/faq/are-jehovahs-witnesses-a-cult/.

  "we don't follow men, we follow christ.".

  but, if you say you believe in jesus but doubt the men.... your dfd.

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  WishingLiz

  The Huffington Post says (in part):

  "Any religious community can become a cult. It's not about how faith is expressed in a community but more importantly how people are treated if they want to leave and disbelieve."
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  NEWBIES are leaving like crazy! Be very afraid WT

  by clarity in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  # 3 newbie post.

  first of all, the newbies have set a record here!.

  have you ever seen a 4pg post where 21 new members reply!

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  WishingLiz

  Thanks Clarity.

  To be honest, I left TT years ago. I recently joined JWN when I had a life change, and decided to move close to my family. It was great at first. They always said they wouldn't shun me, but in reality, they don't want much contact with me. I think the recent apostate talks are influencing them.

  So here I am, after years of living away, living again in my hometown, close to my family. I may move away again, who knows.

  Thanks again for the welcome! JWN is a great place.
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  I made a huge mistake

  by KariOtt in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a tough 6 months for my jw hubby and myself.

  next saturday is our anniversary.

  i wasn't sure we would make it with the turbulance of the last 6 months.

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  Hi Kariott,

  There should be no reason why you can't keep your cross = belief. Your husband knows you aren't a witness. Does he think the cross is possessed? I know he probably thinks he has a right to say what you do, because that's what he's taught. So sad he's bringing this all into your life and marriage.

  lots of love
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  Terry's book: I WEPT BY THE RIVERS OF BABYLON

  by tec in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i just finished reading this book, by our terry, and i thorougly enjoyed it.

  terry has an amazing gift for words and expression - as most of you already know - and he lured me in from the very start.

  reading this book is an actual experience... and i don't want to say much more than that, because i don't want to color your experience as you read for yourself.. .

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  Congratulations Terry!!

  Terry said: I told him I'd think about it and get back to him.

  You'd be surprised how many people want to know about the inner workings of the JW's.

  Look at the popularity of the Breaking Amish and Sister Wives on TV. And every time someone exposes Scientology, people are interested.
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  An Elder Reads CoC !!

  by TTATTelder in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i have recently joined the site.

  i was just appointed an elder this summer.

  i started discovering the ttatt (the truth about the truth) last year after putting a few things together myself concerning the leadership and then doing some research online.. i really enjoyed jwfacts.com, jwsurvey, and others.

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  Welcome TTATElder,

  Yes, I so appreciated Ray's humble honest manner that came out in CoC as well.

  Take care, lots of love.
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  Overheard at the coffee shop...

  by Jim_TX in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  here's a bit of a story for you... .

  on the weekends, i go to a local restaurant/coffee shop and spend some time there reading, studying, taking notes, etc.

  i also get a light breakfast with my 6 to 10 cups of coffee.

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  Christmas is such a joyous season. I remember my first Christmas after I left, I felt like a little kid I was so happy. Tears filled my eyes as I opened my presents.

  After that one year, my Mom found out my work had sent me a Christmas basket, and told me I should send it back. I still shake my head, how can they be so totally off base.
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  My Mom Is Finally Seeing The Light!

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am very happy that my dear old mom is finally seeing the truth about the "truth".

  what hit her like a ton of bricks is the latest wt.

  study article that exalts the governing body and pretty much negates everything the bible students and russell, the founder of the watchtower, ever said was truth!.

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  Congratulation minimus. So glad to hear about your Mom.

  Everytime I think of my family, I just shake my head. I so wish they would acknowledge at least something, but, alas, it's all about obedience with them.

  I'm so happy for you!
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  breakup guilt

  by fresh prince of ohio in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i recently broke up with my girlfriend of four years.. she is 40 years old, with health problems, financial problems, little family/friend support, and facing an uncertain future.

  i gave her some money.. the guilt i am experiencing right now is absolutely anguishing.

  she had very, very high hopes about our relationship and loved me very deeply.

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  WishingLiz

  Breaking up can be so difficult, especially if you haven't been through a hard one before. I don't pretend to know what you're going through, but I have been through one where I did go back, and it was a mistake. All the old problems and reasons we broke up for in the first place were unresolved, nothing had changed. So if you're still thinking of going back, I 'd recommend getting professional advice first.

  Wishing you all the best.
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  Update on my fade

  by wizzstick in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it's been over 3 months since i first posted after years of lurking:.

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/253883/1/my-story-a-kinda-newbie-from-the-uk#.ukhopt-yza8.

  and what a 3 months it's been.

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  WishingLiz

  Welcome wiz. I'm happy for you.

  Best best best wishes :-)
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  Are JW:s more sick than others

  by Bugbear in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  on request from friends thread i would like to tell you my story.

  the subject from friends thread was simply : are jw,s more negative or more disordered than normal people?.

  i was 10 15 years ago an elder.

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  WishingLiz

  I know my uncle used to pioneer, but had to leave for health reasons. He's also an elder. He's had some very serious health issues, as has his wife, over the years.

  It can't be easy, living on window washer wages, being at the beck and call of everyone in the congregation, and trying to please the society at the same time.

  He needs to learn how to say No Thank You as we'll, Bugbear. He thinks nothing of taking a phone call during dinner, when he has company - and it happens quite often. Elders and MS's phoning about this and that, right at dinner time.