Your history sounds like mine, married 16 years without children, elder for 10 years, divorced from first JW wife, Df'ed brother. I was never Df'ed, just faded away.
My life now is great, married to a great worldly woman for 33 years, have children, a Df'ed brother that I love to be with several times a week. Getting old now but still going strong.
Welcome to this place and hope you enjoy your life as I have.
Ken P.