Ive decided that in the largest spectrum of things, it really doesn't matter one bit one way or the other.
In my case, there are no hardcore family members and it would require way to much energy and effort to systematically pull them out of the religion.
Sure, its all a fantasy. But their fear of death is offset by the fantasy, so whatever.
A hundred years from now, none of it will matter as we won't be here. By the way, I'm completely cool with that. So for the time being ill hang tight and continue to discover the joys of living in the moment.