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  Bearded students on Ministry school?

  by NikL in

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  so at last nights ministry school we had 2...yes that's right two that had parts and gave them with beards.. i found it interesting.

  i thought the consensus was that you couldn't have any extra privileges if you wore one.. maybe the school is different?.

  anyway, anybody else seen this in the u.s.?.

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  I remember some brothers who were going bald just went ahead and finished it off with a razor. Guess what? Big no-no. Elders counseled them on being 'fadish'. Let that wisp of hair grow back and comb it over like a good little slave...
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  where was jehovahs hand in the matter?

  by nowwhat? in

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  so jah can build a broadcasting studio in record time, provide a cool summer so the new bibles can be printed on time without the presses overheating, but cant deliver his people in russia?!.

  if jehovah is going to allow it what good are millions of letters and prayers then?

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  Simon's post reminded me of how we were taught about when the nation of Israel fell upon hard times. The WTS always presented this way: Whenever something bad befell the Israelites, you could always trace it back to their falling short in the dedication to good ole Jah.

  You're set to fail as a JW. If you fall short in your service, you'll fall on hard times as recompense. If you give everything you have, you're still going to find yourself in a bunker hiding from SWAT teams. The world is against you. You're going to suffer. Get used to it.
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  Bearded students on Ministry school?

  by NikL in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so at last nights ministry school we had 2...yes that's right two that had parts and gave them with beards.. i found it interesting.

  i thought the consensus was that you couldn't have any extra privileges if you wore one.. maybe the school is different?.

  anyway, anybody else seen this in the u.s.?.

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  Some hairstyles for men from the 30s and 40s are now back in vogue. Getting your grandfathers haircut at an old school barber shop are the big thing now. And slathering greasy pomade to hold it all down.

  Whadyawannabet that if you came in to the hall with that now hip again look, you'd get called into the back room for a chat about proper grooming...
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  JWs in Russia. This short article from TASS is very interesting. "Everything You Need To Know About JWs"

  by NikL in

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  remember tass is traditionally pretty much a spokesman for the government.

  http://tass.com/world/939582.

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  There's enough factual information wrong about that article that any JWs reading it would immediately declare it as inspired by Satan, therefore 'fake news'.

  But some of the information is factual, and quite damning. And that's why they're now banned.

  I don't like banning any religion. It's wrong based on human rights. But one has to admit that the WTS didn't help itself with their blood doctrine, shunning, and badly handled child abuse cases.

  And I hate how it's going to give JWs in 'free' lands more persecution complexes, and scare fringe members back to the fold.
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  Serena Williams Pregnant

  by wisdomfrombelow in

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  now that she has announced that she is 20 weeks pregnant and not married, what is her status in the cult?

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  First of all, she's not a baptized JW, so there's nothing they can do to her.

  Second, she's a celebrity. There are several sets of standards when it comes to living in the JW world. Celebrity status gives you more freedom in your dress, grooming, associates, and behavior. Just ask Michael Jackson and Prince. oh wait... nevermind
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  Bearded students on Ministry school?

  by NikL in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so at last nights ministry school we had 2...yes that's right two that had parts and gave them with beards.. i found it interesting.

  i thought the consensus was that you couldn't have any extra privileges if you wore one.. maybe the school is different?.

  anyway, anybody else seen this in the u.s.?.

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  ...some other congregations were letting men with beards read the watchtower on stage. What a revolution this was! He was hopeful that it would migrate to his congregation so he could have a beard.

  
  

  You may be in a cult, if you hope you will be allowed to grow a beard one day...
  
  
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  At This Point In Time How Would You Feel If You Were Disfellowshipped?

  by minimus in

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  before my mother's death, it would have impacted me.

  now , i wouldn't care..

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  I'm with Blondie...

  I miss the 'red dot'.

  But as far as being DFd, I don't care. I don't bring attention to myself, and I've been gone so long, they really don't pay me any mind. I guess the only way I could be DFd if were someone were to take too much interest in trying to get me to return, and I made it clear that I was an apostate thinker, no longer believing. Even then, I'm not sure they'd go to the trouble.
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  Could a petition to make shunning illegal work?

  by aboveusonlysky in

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  we're currently watching leah remini's series about scientology and the main thing she seems to focus on is the shunning policies of the scientology organization which let's face it are very similar to jw procedure.. i was wondering with all that's in the media recently about bullying could a petition be put together to get the goverment to consider making religiously mandated shunning illegal?

  has such a thing been tried before?.

  https://petition.parliament.uk/help says the following - .

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  We all shun. We just do it for personal reasons. You don't like someone, you avoid them. Someone wronged you, or lied about you, you avoid them. It's a choice we make, based on our experiences with that person.

  The WTS takes this to a group level. You're in the club, but break the rules. Now you're no longer in the club. The other club members are told you're out, and they collectively shun you. True, it's not based on personal interaction with you, it's based on obedience to the leadership, and compliance with the collective, but break it all the way down, there's nothing you can do about it. Like so many said already, you can't make someone talk to you, or accept you. By not adhering to their rules and traditions, you put yourself in a position of possibly being shunned.

  The terrible part of a religious group who practices shunning is how they coerce family members to shun their own family. It is a terrible thing, but even in the 'real' world there are people who have had to disown family members for various reasons. That was a personal decision, based on experiences and facts of dealing with that person. In the JW world, that decision is based on compliance with the WT leadership. No petitions, or laws, are going to change that.
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  Even if it's not the truth, it's still the best way to live

  by Simon in

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  how many times did you hear that gem?

  it often went along with "the truth is a protection" which is their way of saying "living a moral life is good for you ... and you can't do that without us".. but think about what people are really saying.

  i think the real message is "i know it's not the truth, but i chose to follow it anyway".. it seems like a pre-emptive argument because they know they can't defend it as "the truth" so instead they switch to defending it as a lifestyle.. of course any kind of lifestyle that has a decent moral ingredient to it, respect for law and order, discipline etc... probably increases people's chances of doing better in life, but they don't have a monopoly on it.. so just remember, next time you hear someone saying "even if it's not the truth" what they are really admitting is that they already know it isn't..

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  A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far, away... when I was still a young padawan, not yet experienced in the ways of the Jedi, an elder was calling on me, trying to encourage me back to the dark side (KH meetings). I laid out my defense...everything from 607 vs 587 to the beard prohibition not being non supported by scripture.

  He was patient, and actually listened. I think I made him squirm on a couple of issues. Finally, I asked him what he would do if learned one day that a WT prediction failed, or that a major doctrine changed. Would he sit up, take notice, and contemplate a change? His answer - No. See, he was a trouble youth before he found the JWs. Gang violence, drugs, theft. But when he started studying, he saw he needed to change. And change he did. He went full bore into JWism. By the time I knew him, he was a family man, with kids and one of the showcase elders in the circuit. Actually, he is a good man, one of the good guy elders. I liked him. Still do. But since this religion had saved him from a life of drugs and crime, he was now in debt to them for them saving his life. He felt even if something was amiss with the WTS, he still owed them. There was no point in going further with our discussions. I wasn't going to change. He wasn't going to change.
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  To those taking a stand and not attending the Memorial tonight

  by doubtfull1799 in

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  i salute you.

  many of you, like me, are probably under enormous emotional pressure, whether from a lingering false sense of guilt from your indoctrination, whether from "invitations," and assumptions that you'll naturally be coming, or whether from outright emotional blackmail, even begging and pleading.

  i am thinking of you whoever you are, all of you, even though i don't know you in person.

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  "Taking a stand"?
  So much DRAMA!
  This isn't the frikkin' Great Tribulation! It's not imaginary Armageddon!
  It's NOTHING! That's ALL IT IS!
  Get a grip... breathe... relax
  You'll feel fine in the morning.

  It is a lot of drama. And yea, it's just Tuesday, we'll all be fine in the morning. I get where you're coming from, it's not life threatening, or the end times. Just another JW meeting.

  Personally, I don't have a real problem not going or going. Some years, I've skated by with nary an invite. Other years, the pressure was heavier. In those years, I give in and go. It's one hour a year, I think I can handle that. It's the only meeting I've been to in ten years if not more. (not counting JW weddings/funerals). I'm so removed from it, that it doesn't bother me to go. It's like going to some other church service. Don't believe it. Don't buy into it. It doesn't affect me.

  But for some, the drama is real. The pressure from family so intense. Marriages can break up. Young people get kicked out of their parents home. These things happen when they 'take a stand' and say in effect, 'I don't believe this anymore. I'm not going' That does take some courage.