Thanks "lost".
It gives me a little uplift knowing i have poss helped in some small way in showing the TTAT, I am an unbeliever and feel a little out of the water here, but was in a relationship for over a year with a witness girl, loved each other very much but unfortunatly in the end her consiance got the better of her and she ran to the elders. Unfortunatly i found this and a few other solid facts to late to help us, i hope it helps you & others.
AMO