Vanderhoven makes a valid point...it's one thing to leave the borg in your twenties, with the energy of youth and a world of possibiities in front of you. It's altogether different if you are at an age of retirement but have no retirement funds, and perhaps no longer have a mate. Two very different perspectives in which to "flourish" or "languish".
Using the broad stroke is not always valid as economic status, health conditions, abuse, family situations, etc. are different for each person.