Actually,
My JW friend called me the other day.. Typical (although normally he doesn't preach to me at all, which in and of itself is not normal from what I've heard).. Anyway, we spoke, and of course he told me how 'concerned' he was about the start of war.
I did say to him, don't tell me, you guys now know who the king of the north is suddenly, right? He said no, but one can pop up at any time..
Ughhh... Nausiating in the extreme... I can only feel for all of you people who's family is in this cult... I have a friend whom is in the cult, and my heart goes out to how badly he is being decieved without even realizing it.. I cannot even imagine the inner turmoil you go through with family shunning you, etc..
Me, I'm lucky.. Don't really know why, but my friend won't end the relationship (although he certianly is trying to hide it from his family and fiancee).. He has tried a couple of times to 'get me angry' at him so he can walk away, of course, I follow god's law, and forgive him and apply even more love towards him in those times.. Usually it takes about 2 weeks before he gives up, and then we are 'friends' again (eat together 1-2 times/month, call and email each other a couple of times/week) for another month or two until he tries again..
I've told him that I, just like he, will never walk away from my friends.. So, if he has a problem, he can tell me to go take a hike, but I will never do that, and will never stop being his friend and showing him love until he says the words, "Get lost"... After that I will certainly respect his wishes, but will still consider him my friend, and will still continue to love him unconditionally...
Ehhh, on second thought, maybe I do know why he is still my friend.. <G> One can only hope he's seeing the hypocrisy of his religion during all of this!!!!
Sorry, didn't mean to diatribe about me.. My heart goes out to all of you with family still in.. I don't know how you handle it.. I have a hard time with my friend at times.. Just want to grab him by the shoulders and "shake the truth into him"... But you cannot, only patience will work along with alot of prayer!!!!