Bluesapphire - So let me get his straight, you were pressuring your
husband to "confess" even after you were married and had children?
And the big sin was; you were sexually attracted to each other and planned
to get married and you touched each other before you got married ?
And his intentions towards you were entirely honorable,
in that he married you. And he is a good father, kind and a good husband ?
But becuase he did not want to "confess" to elders, these WT defined "sins"
( please, where are the scriptures to define what engaged couples can do )
because of this, and not his general character, you think he is "not spiritual" ?
I am no supporter of the this cult, but shouldn't your real concern be that he
would sit in commitee meetings and hear confessions of child molesters
and then not turn them into the police because of WT rules and policy ?
Sounds like he actually might be able to fear God, more than
a sham organization who makes up "rules" as they go along.
In case I am not making myself clear, and apparently I rarely do,
you would have more respect for him if he followed "the rules"
and gave no thought to whether these rules were right or wrong.
And he is really a great man and a good person but spiritual he is NOT!
I have news for you - being a great man and a good person IS being spiritual
"Show me your faith, aside from your works, and
I will show you my faith by my works" James 2:18