Hempy!!!! I have heard that rain on a wedding day means a long and happy marriage!
There is a df'd girl who works in my building. She was df'd several years ago and a jw who worked in her office at the time told me so that I would shun her. I thought she would be so sad, miserable really. Yet, every time I saw her, she was radiant. So happy with life. She got married and still looks extremely happy all the time. When I told her I had walked away from the religion, she hugged me and we cried, right in the hallway. I love this girl so very much. Her positive attitude really helped me a lot to overcome my fears of leaving the organization.