As far as what physically attracts me.....well, I love the tall dark and handsome ones! I have never been big on blonds altho' I almost married one once. And since I am 5'9" it really appeals to me to be with a man who is taller than me, I guess it makes me feel small and feminine. I am not that fussy about weight as long as they generally take care of themselves. And I have a wide margin in determining what is handsome....I go more for the rugged, slightly imperfect, (not Brad Pitt, or classically beautiful guys)gorgeous guys.
I love a great smile and eyes....oh yes, the eyes are a real focal point for me! Skeptic has what I call "bedroom eyes" and I just melt when he looks at me!
Qualities I fall for everytime would be things like a wonderful sense of humour; I love to laugh and have a great time when were together, even if it is just a trip to the grocery store.
I love and couldnt do without a man with a good head on his shoulders and isnt afraid to be responsible, dependable. A man with a good social conscience. And by far, THE most important thing would be for my guy to be intelligent; love to read and discuss any number of topics and be comfortable enough in who he is that we can disagree in our conclusions and argue our viewpoints without worrying that one of us is taking it personally. Someone who makes me feel like my points are valid, even when he doesnt necessarily agree with me.
I guess those are the biggies for me.
Windrider