Sorry, but I've been to a number of funerals. Too many, perhaps, but, I suppose, one is too many.
Anyway, no, nobody preaches to the attendees like the JWs do. Indeed, I remember my grandfathers funeral the clearest. He was a WW2 vet. What did they talk about? Oh, sure, they mentioned he was in heaven, etc. But what they talked about almost the WHOLE TIME was what kind of person he was. What he did for his country. His family, his kids, etc.
Things that mattered. Things we should remember him for.
What do JWs talk about? I think the last 2 JW funerals I went to they mentioned the person that died by name or implication maybe twice. The rest of the hour or so (and it was) was about how WE could all join them in paradise, blahblahblah.
Certainly, NO mention of their accomplishments in this life - except, perhaps, that they were all in vain and striving after the wind - after all, the only life that matters is in the new system.
Even as a good little uber-JW boy, I thought the funerals seemed cold. And, recently, with 'worldly' funerals to compare against....well, the difference is stark to say the least.
No, I have no problems ridiculing the JWs double-standard regarding people, dead or alive, as they obviously don't care for their dead at all. (Indeed, they have and continue to put out articles on WHY we should not dwell on the dead)