The nicest thing anyone has done for me? Can I mention that in this forum? What about the kids?
Ohh, I got one. I am ETERNALLY grateful to my grandmother (God Rest Her Soul). As a teen in need of spending money I'd go see her, but she never gave it to me. She would, however, let me earn it. She owned a small trailer park, there was always grass to be cut, leaves to be raked, stick to pick up out of the yard, windows to wash, gardens to be weeded, etc. I never walked away empty handed, but I always had to WORK for the money. Grandma taught me a good work ethic. I don't like taking handouts at all. It was a hard thing for me to swallow my pride back in the early 90's and get on food stamps for about a year.
Shortly before she passed grandma was pitching out old checks that she had kept through the years. There was an enormous stack of checks made out to my brothers and I. Some for just $5 or $10, others for as much as $40. That was a lot of money for a kid in the 70's. Shoot, I was able to take my first wife out all weekend on $20. $3 for gas, $6 for McDonalds, the rest for a Chicken and Beer dance at the Knights of Columbus hall.
I love to work and pay my way to this day. I'm glad neither grandma or my parents just "gave" me money, but made me do something to earn it.
I tried to pay her back by doing things like shoveling her walk, digging her car out, raking leaves, etc and refusing payment, though she continued to try to pay me. Sometimes she'd still make me take the money, even after I had a job that paid well enough not to need the "granny supplement".
I miss my no nonsense, calling a spade a spade, sweet, strong willed and frankly WIERD grandmother. Wierd because at the age of 21, in 1929, she shaved her head bald just to piss my grandpa off! She used to steal pocket money from his pants when he was asleep (passed out drunk) and was able to pay $1200 cash in 1944 for the house she lived in until her death. She divorced and then remarried the old codger in 1958. She would wait till he passed out and beat him with a broom stick. She once told me "Your grandpa woke up one morning and said, 'Geneva, I'm stiff, it feels like someone beat me with a stick last night' and I replied, "I did ya old son of a b*tch!"
Grandma was just cool that way.
Edited by - Yeru2 on 9 December 2002 15:21:40