Once you start getting educated on the real life.
I think you have diverged yourself of the real life all together and found a place where you feel comfortable and that is being controlled by other men.
For some people delusions are more comforting than reality, forfeiting your personal responsibility to yourself and others is also seen as advantageous.
Thinking for yourself as an individual is something some people rather not do, all you have to do in a religious cult is put a number on your head and obey the instructions.