At first I though WTF!!!! err then why are you here ? lol.... then I got to the bottom.
It is interesting you say that she IS NOT baptised, yes?
that explains a lot. you see she is not fully in, inside the inner workings, she is only flitting round the edges, where's all warm and fuzzy in the sun. She hasn't felt the darkness inside that so many others have felt. She does'nt have the knowledge, We do cos we are out. but we can compare it to when we were 'IN' and then when we were 'OUT'
We have something to measure it by. She only has the disney movie. She is ingnorant. I was the very same. But now I KNOW TTATT. I can see it all. Warts and all.
I have a dear elder couple who are also good friends, they are wonderful people. True christians (whatever that is these days..lol) and i love them. I have memories with them. It hurts me to see them, knowing what I know and I just want to make them see through it, to wake up and realise TTAATT. But I also KNOW why they are so cpommitted, as they believe the message, they believe in God, Jesus, the Bible. they just don't know it's the organisation that's wrong.
Then it's really hard to talk to anyone else about cos unless they have the knowledge you mat as well be talking alien speak, they prob think your a bit nuts. Then family and people think your a bit nuts if you are in. It's like being in a storm.
I'm finding it so hard just to be able to get it across to my non-jw partner in a way that he understands. cos like your friend he doesn't have the knowledge of it. not a clue to the realities and truths. the horror stories.
He can't understand why I am leaving the 'cult' cos he only see's good christian religion. I have the hard work of trying to get it into him it's not a good christian religion, it's fake, it's a cult, the organisation is rotten.
Yes she is frightened. I was frightened when I found out TTATT.
I was frightened when I first came on here and took a peak.
I was frightened when I registered.
I was firghtened when I first posted / commented.
I was frightened when I was on here at home in my own house ( where I am supposed to feel safe)
I was frightened of what to say and how to say it to my partner ( God love him, he's brilliant, we have been through so much )
I was frightened my children would catch me on here, or see something, or read something, because I haven't told them yet. And don't know where to even begin with them. And they are not even jw kids, but know I am (technically) one.
I'm frightened my old jw elder cuple will find out.
I'm even still frightened of their warped controlling teachings, that I am now a goat and God hates me. lol. yep. I know it's not true.
But our minds have been so thoroughly conditioned to it it's hard not to.
It's now a 'malady' a 'sickness/illness' 'disease'. We have to treat it and watch for recuperation. adjusting the medicine/treatment along the way. as we figure it all out.
I think with your friend, you should say NOTHING at all whatsover, unless she comes to you. then let her talk, son't say anything that can come back to bite you. make sure you have enough info on her that you have a bit of power to control her with if it goes pear-shaped. you canot trust anyone. Not even family.
i hope she learns. good luck
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