Posts by Bugbear

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How did you feel when you found out "the truth about the truth"?

by stuckinarut2 in

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friends

so when you first found out specific facts about the organisation, how did you feel??.

the un membership.

the way 1914 was calculated from pyramid measurements.

Bugbear

Released, liberated, confused, angry, scared……..

I guess these words are not the only feelings that I had when I realized that I had been prisoned over 5 years as a mental slave. I was an elder at that time with many members in my family in. So I kept on smiling, serviced, talks in congregations and assembly halls. I was very popular . I guess I had cognitive dissonance. I knew I was lying, but had a feeling that it was better for my family to have all these friends. This type of life caused me depression, heart attacks, so I started to slowly fade away and started (against the will of the soc.) to study on university. This only to confirm my earlier understanding. I think my family understood my situation (at least my children) and when one or two of them decided that they no longer wanted to be JW:s, it was time for me to. I had several conversations with both CO:s and Bethel people, and I presented the result of my University studies and they just couldn´t explain all the contradictions and philosophical failure in the soc.s arguments, so they rushed away from my home and I have never heard from them again ---- and now I am only happy and released, deliberated and FREE FREE

Bugbear

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Why do people just give their money to the Watchtower?

by WireRider in

what do they contribute to humanity?

what do they contribute to any part of society?.

why are people paying for a scam?.

Bugbear

For years I have heard from my wife that we never shall give any contribution to “wordly” organizations such as the Red Cross, doctors without borders, save the children, UNHCR a.s.f. The contribution we could have chipped in with, would only disappear in “administrative costs” such as salaries, air tickets, luxury hotels and bribes to the local politicians.

I do agree with lots of what she thinks, but the other day I looked up some of these organizations accounting statement. And I was astonished over how well they showed and specified were their money had been spent. Every project, every school, every water project, every disease fight, every child home, was impeccably specified. And the administrative cost was often lower then 20%. I guess that the WT estate business is more lucrative to the brothers. But I have not been able to se any accounting from the Watchtower and Zions Aid organization..

Bugbear

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Samuel Herd's Schabowski moment

by Gorbatchov in

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the samuel herd broadcasting about the layoff of fulltime wts employees, made me think about the gunter schabowski press conference in november 1989.. the correlations:.

- samuel and gunter read their message from paper.

uninterested, not enough informed.

Bugbear

Gorbatchov!

Good observation. Use history to understand your own time….

Bugbear

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Scripture fatigue

by New day in

i wondered why i felt so fatigued over many years from hearing the same things again and again at the meetings.

even the scriptures become too familiar.

a few days ago i quickly read through all the gospels and realised i knew all the verses in detail.

Bugbear

Yes reading the same scriptures over and over again, makes you brainwashed. Your brain will be unable to connect any other brain cells, then those already used in your Bible reading. This is a well-known method used by many totalitarian, (political, religious) organizations, to trap their members in a box. Then discourage them to look in other directions (education), makes it even mora difficult to break the barrier and actually understand things the way they really are. Frightening …..

Bugbear

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Why do most Christians churches have masonic and/or pagan symbols?

by kabwell in

has anyone looked at the local churches in their area and seen pagan and freemason symbols both inside and outside.

i am not a jw but at least they don't seem to follow this trend.

why do "christians" wear a symbol of torture and death ?

Bugbear

St Berhold...

Tnks for clarifying...

Bugbear

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Why do most Christians churches have masonic and/or pagan symbols?

by kabwell in

has anyone looked at the local churches in their area and seen pagan and freemason symbols both inside and outside.

i am not a jw but at least they don't seem to follow this trend.

why do "christians" wear a symbol of torture and death ?

Bugbear

Hello Kabwell and welcome to this forum.

If I remember correctly, the first christians in Rome used the drawings of a fishlike symbol. This symbol has been uset in the ancient rom catacombs.

Historicians belived that It was a secret sign, to gather all those who secretly belived in Jesus. Remember the Bible story of the "fisherman"..!

Bugbear

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Hi noobie here.

by Grags in

hi my name is graham (but i much prefer to be called grags), i'm a 38 year old married man from the uk and have been studying with the witnesses for about 3 months.

i do a study every saturday and love every minute.

in john 6: 16-24 jesus's disciples get onto a boat without jesus and set off.

Bugbear

Hello Gregs, welcome to the forum,

Here is an old JW that has been studding the Bible in over 40 years, including University examines in History of Ideas and Science, Philosophy, and History. I´m from Scandinavia. You are quite right about to total inconsistence of the Bible stories. Not only the different side stories, but in fact the very core of the Bible teachings according to Christianity as a whole. The core teachings of almost all Christian “cults” are: “Jesus died for all our sins, so that all who believe in him not should not face death but have eternal life.” !? Think of it!!

Jesus is send by his father to make people (his children) understand that if they obey him and listen to him, they will have eternal life?!!

We kill him, spit on him, humiliate him and he dies. This by those who really had a chance to see him, all his miracles, his wonderful teachings a.s.f.

And when he is death, all of a sudden, we are forgiven, by his father. We are suddenly in a much better position to his father then before our bestial behavior?

During 40 years of bending this problem I have never been able to understand the logic in this reasoning. You got to have a lot of “faith” to understand why Jehova will forgive you all your sins because your ancestors killed his son….

Continue to research, not only the Bible, the Koran, and even other “wholly scriptures” They are all totally whiteout all consistency, they are all just old stories, interesting to for Historians, just to understand how ancient people thought…..But absolutely inappropriate to understand “the world”

Bugbear

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Crazy things said by Higher Rank Witnesses

by GrownMidget in

it was the week when circuit overseer comes and my relatives wanted to offer the food.

i had got my school friend, a muslim girl, going into the meetings and she actually progressed and went to the field service, but never got baptized and one day she just disappeared.well anyway, this overseer comes for the free lunch and then when we are sitting in the table with his wife and my relatives, the muslim girl comes as the subject.

overseer throws out this absurd asshole joke that because their family doesn't like witnesses his father will come with a truck and drives it through the kingdom hall wall and then it explodes.

Bugbear

I remember a convention meating in Scandinavia, where the CO,s culdn´t come due to he has got a heart attack and was in bed at hospital. However his substitute, read a message from him reading:

"I am sorry for not beeing able to be with you here today, but remember I am still happy when thinking of you, it is wunderful to beaver away ones body in the service of Jehova.!"

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Watchtower do you know what your shunning is doing?

by clarity in

the human brain has a neural interdependence that underpins the human need to group together.

learn why we need others to thrive and survive on the next episode of the brain with david eagleman, airing tonight at 10/9c on pbs.. watchtower knows that isolation is a killer and yet they enforce it.. they are murdering our brains!.

clarity .

Bugbear

It is true that the principle of shunning and Dfs, hurt a lot of former JW.s And that this behavior have led people to suicide, and have caused them mental trouble. But it is not a weapon that could kill their enemies only, it can Couse even them who chose to stay enormous pain and nervous problems.

In my case, my wife and I have created a big family. Six children and today five grandchildren. None of us is any longer a JW, except my wife!!! She is supposed to shun all her children, not letting them come to our big house, not letting them sleep over in our house (none of them has married). When some of the members of the family celebrates Christmas/birthdays and want to do it in our house, she must leave the house going to “her friends”, doing her service hours. If she is choosing to stay home on some meeting, because she have all heir 5 grandchildren at home, there is always one or two giving her a call, to hear why she didn´t attend that special meeting.

I can tell, that it is not the rest of the family that is depressed and have nervous problems with WT shunning and Dfs policy. In fact it hits the user of that policy as well. I know several families in the same situation. Some of the older members of the congs, has been forced to move to other cities so that it shouldn´t be obvious that they still like to meet their children and grandchildren.

Bugbear

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Do You Think Any Of The Governing Body Are Contemplating Suicide? Over This Rather Rude Financial Reality?

by Brokeback Watchtower in

faithful and always so very discrete in many things but when it comes to the lord's money not so good.. i think as it begins to register in their minds as to what a terrible job they have done as ceos of a large corporation leading it into this condition that thoughts of suicide come from.

not to mention the shame at being a public spetical to the world by the rc.

all these things and more are creeping through their denial as they are forced to face reality.

Bugbear

A narcissist/sociopath would harm or kill innocent bystanders waaayyyy before they'd attack themselves. Yes their only interest are themselves. Nothing elses matter. The more clever of them realize/understand that this boat will sunk, and take actions. The dumber of them will follow the boat and not understand. We will se soon who of them ara dumb and who of them are clever. Perhaps the clever ones will resign due to health reasons.

Bugbear