I just got off the phone with an elder. Here is what he had to say (remember other elders will inteperet it differently and do their own thing AT the "visit"):
- This was discussed at length at the recent Elders School
- This is a 3 month program running from December through Februrary - possibly being extended till March
- They are constructing lists of everyone they know to be inactive and will be calling on every person on the list
- They need to send a report back to Bethel at the end of the program showing their success rate of who they are are able to assist in returning back to meetings.
- They will be asking whether the inactive person still considers themselves to be a JW OR "do you want to come back vs not come back"
- According to the elder I spoke with they are NOT supposed to be on a witch hunt - ie concentrating on the negative side and DF/DA inactives
- They are supposed to contact and have a similar conversation with DF folks too.
This is the info he gave to me. Take it at face value. There will likely be various approaches taken by different elders and I intend to play the game if they call on me. I will ensure the appointment is for a fixed length of time (so I know how much to burn - and I will make them stick to it because I will tell them I have another appointment to get to exactly on schedule. I will even have someone page me from work telling me I have to go in.)
If they ask the question "Do you still consider yourself a JW" I have answers lined up that suit my personal circumstances. While I cannot post these here is an example:
Elder: Do you still consider yourself to be a JW?
Donkey: Well, even though I havent been at the meetings I still think like a JW. For example, my conscience still affects me if I have wrong thoughts and it still guides me. The other day I was faced with a temptation to offer a Christamas greeting at work but I still told the other person that due to my Bible trained conscience I do not celebrate Christmas. By the way, brother (puke quietly), I have a question.
Elder: What is that?
Donkey: Well at work things are very PC now and people are fobidden from saying "Merry Xmas" but instead they have to say "Happy Holidays" now. Since they aren't saying or using the word XMAS - what am I supposed to say to them? Is the word Holiday used to refer to specific days or does it just mean enjoy your time off?
Before they know it we will have burned up the allotted time and I will have appeared to be asking for advice on doing the "right things". If this fails then I will lie and say say YES I am a JW and play the game all over again - within 2 months I will be inactive again.