I understand it would make you anxious as you've been trained for as long as you've been a JW to obey the elders.
I would continue to just ignore it as much as possible. If you can't avoid them you can politely tell them something like, "Thanks for your concern. I'm dealing with some personal issues right now. I just need some time ..."
Essentially, you're telling them to mind their own business, albeit politely.
Be firm.
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