ROH, you're obviously in a bad situation. We feel for you, but your posts are almost impossible to read. Every sentence is a nearly incoherent rambling rant.
The way you write makes it too difficult to follow. Also, you are posting way to many details.
What do you hope to accomplish by posting here? Do you want sympathy? Advice? Just a place to rant?
Why don't you just leave this religion? Seek legal redress where possible and appropriate and just move on from the rest?
By the way, in case you don't know: JW elders have no authority over you unless you let them!
Let's review: It's a cult!