CIF: Therefore I stated I have no problem understanding your position.
No. You said, "Why should I have any problem with them or either of you?"
Those are not the same thing.
One is a statement, the other a question. If you had actually made the statement you just wrote, I would have responded differently, probably thanking you.
But since you asked a question I felt I had to respond, especially because it implied a problem no one had raised.
CIF: Sheesh, I hate this place. I feel like it's 1980-something and I've been dragged before the JW elders who are dissecting my words all over again. Forget I said anything.
Sorry you feel that way. Perhaps if you choose your words with more clarity. Apparently you often write things in a way that don't mean what you intend.