Similar thing happened in my family, several times actually.
Father on death bed at home: Zero concern or help from JW's. Mother was told to pray more, be more regular at the meetings, and more active in the field ministry. This, even though she was a full-time breadwinner and mother.
Grandmother on death bed at nursing home: Zero concern or help from JW's. My mother was told to cook her meals.
Mother on death bed in large University Hospital: Zero concern or help from JW's. Upon calling PO Elduh, was told I was interrupting his dinner, and that I should call the local Elduh's in the area. (she was away for organ transplant) Elduh then promptly hung up without so much as a word of spiritual encouragement. I was in a large parking garage, alone, with a cell phone. I picked my jaw up off the floor, hung my head in disbelief and abandonment, and cried my eyes out. The next day, a van load of my mom's "worldly" co-workers showed up. The took the day off, drove 225 miles in a rented van, and made my mother smile on her last day on earth.
JW's are USELESS in times of need or family tragedy. USELESS. The only thing the Elduh's care about is if you're warming a seat, filling out your timeslip, and DONATING MONEY. You are a number, and a forgettable, expendable, replaceable number at that.
Fuck this cult, and the slimy, weaselly, uncaring zombies who willfully remain in it. I'll NEVER forget the shitty treatment my entire family received from these holier-than-thou, self-righteous POSEURS!