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What don't you miss about meetings?
by kwijibo in.
i don't miss being spoken to like i was someones best friend when i know they wouldn't pee on me if i was on fire.. i don't miss always standing on my own and having no one come and talk to me.. i don't miss having people talk around me about the great time they had at the latest sport/barbecue/dinner get-together which i wasn't invited to because i'm not spiritual enough.. i don't miss not having friends in the truth or out of the truth because i shouldn't mix with wordly people.. i don't miss being so bored for all those hours a week.. i don't miss all the false smiles people give me when i look at them at the hall and the way they look away when i walk past them at the shopping center.. .................. anyone got anymore?
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Lutece
Sentinel,
I felt the same way about maybe 90% of your post, horrible to think back on isn't it? Thank GOD we're free from that.
Anne
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Whats the dumbest reason youve been counseled?
by avishai inmy friend was counseled for having a bad attitude because he wore white socks w/ his suit.
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Lutece
I got counseled because an elder's wife didn't like that I was wearing a dress that accentuated my tan and was an inch above my knee. He said it was too revealing. Gimme a break! My family all thought it was a joke when I told them later.
It wasn't that bad at all, just made me look really good, LOL.
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Hard work does pay off in the end :)
by WildHorses ini was just sitting here going over my finances and, if murphy's law doesn't come into play.. when i first started this cleaning service, i thought i would never get it built up, and a few times thought i would end up losing my home.
my mom, has on a few occasions, asked me to move to mn to live with her, because she knew my situation.
however, i was determined that i was going to make it on my own.
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Lutece
Congratulations!
You're an inspiration, keep it up and soon you WILL be sending out employees to do the dirty work. It feels great, keep it up.
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International Convention in Pontiac, MI
by Jourles injust when we all thought the 3 day assemblies were too long, here comes the international conventions which are four days long.
the district convention assignment letter from the branch was read tonight informing our congo that we were chosen to attend this years international convention in pontiac, michigan, from june 19-22.. so to all you apostate playa's out there in the motor city, get your rolling billboards ready and stock up on handouts.
give me some flyers beforehand so i can make sure to drop some off in the bathrooms discretely for maximum coverage.
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Lutece
Hey, I'm in Saginaw and I'd like to meet up too.
Last time at the dome I was nursing my son for about half the time in the stinky bathrooms w hile dying from the heat. I came out, grabbed my husband and daughter and said "we're outta here". I didn't go to any more assemblies after that. I always found an excuse, even saying one time, "I was there, didn't you see me?" LOL
Anne
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This is fun!!!!
by Aztec infunny test!
i love it!
have a great new year everyone!http://people.cornell.edu/pages/anb2/quiz.
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Lutece
I'm an APPLE
an apple a day keeps the doctor away
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What did you eat on New Years?
by Trauma_Hound in.
what are you going to eat, or did you eat on new years?
i'm going to have fresh atlantic salmon, and lobster.
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Lutece
Lobster, creme brulee, champagne!
Have fun everyone and be safe
c-ya next year!
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INTERNATIONAL FREEDOM - FEST.
by Englishman inan international freedom - fest for ex- jw's is to be held over the weekend of april 19 - 20.. the location is simply stated at present.
it's at a beach location, somewhere in florida!
i believe that's in the usa.
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Lutece
I am going to try for it! Maybe some of us from Michigan/Ontario area could drive it together?
Keep us posted on the particulars.
Anne
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open marriages, anyone have experience?
by Pierced Angel inwell, my husband found out about my affair (yes, i gave in to the temptation with the soccer player and while it was fantastic, it's over now) and it's been a devestating time, we almost got divorced, but we're working through it.
i knew telling friends and this board wasn't going to help me fight his romantic advances, but i tried.
it was a one time thing that would have continued, but i wasn't too careful about the clues (guilty conscience i think).
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Lutece
The discussion of open marriage MUST be done before it starts.
Pierced Angel here, This was not the problem, we discussed things thoroughly. We thought we were so cool and playing a game where we'd have fun, freedom and fantasy fulfilled. There just was no way this would work between two people who had a lot of serious issues to begin with. I'm not going to say I still believe in an open marriage, but I do believe that two people who love each other should be able to always respect each other and not terrorize one another or the marriage is a sham to begin with. Sexual games and cheating just add to the dysfunction. It was one of our last ditch efforts to save a crumbling marriage and I am sorry I ever took part in it. We both got burned. I will say that there are many other issues at play.
Let's see, what have I learned? If your marriage is in trouble, don't bring other people into the picture. Either fix it or get out of it first. Now Joel and I, we're just trying to heal and remain on friendly terms. I should have considered counseling for the two of us a long time ago, but mistakes that can't be fixed have been made.
I guess this was a shared board learning experience. Too bad we didn't take the earlier advice,
Anne
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Home Schooling
by hippikon inwhat are your thoughts on home schooling?
we had a few in one congregation i was in that practiced home schooling for their kids.
i kina think home schooling is isolationists and for loons.
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Lutece
I homeschooled my daughter for almost five years. I've seen both sides, being a public schooler myself and it all depends on the parent's commitment to their child and balance in their lives. It was a very postive experience for her and she was suited for it. Lots of extra art, traveling and music were included along with visits to friends so that she could "benefit socially". I started working from home more and more and it became impossible to do it well, so she integrated back into the school system.
One thing I worked hard on was making sure it was never a burden to her. I made sure her teachers knew full well how she'd been educated, taking books and records in with me to share with them. Her transition went very smoothly. Socially, she was and is one of the brightest and most well liked in her class. She was head of the pom pon squad this year, student of the month last month and has straight A marks. When I walk into her school to pick her up sometimes, I hear so many kids saying bye to her and talking to her and she seems so popular. I, as a child, was not like that. I was a witness and I was shy, self conscious, etc. I hated middle school. There are so many things to consider when looking into homeschooling and it certainly isn't for parents that aren't prepared for it or who aren't organized.
I've seen the socially unfit homeschoolers some of you talked about. I've also seen bratty, inconsiderate public schooled children that make me wonder if their parents ever talk to them, let alone help with homework or teach them any manners.
It's a personal decision, one that in most states is monitored to at least some degree. Let's please think about how important it is to preserve the freedom of our choice in the matter. I like having options, don't you?