I admire Ellen for saying that she found it difficult to "judge people and sometimes hurt their feelings", as she said. Here is a celebrity who makes a lot of money, and yet she seems to care about the feelings of others. I think it also shows that it does take a certain kind of person to sit there and make judgments.
I'll liken it to the times we had speech counsel at the TMS. I was the overseer and I often felt bad about giving a "W" (Work On This). I could sense people squirming in their seat as I counseled them, and it made me and them uncomfortable. I guess they did away with it, finally.