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  I'm afraid I'd be single for life

  by ohnightdivine in

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  this is quite embarrassing for me to share, but as a 30+ year old single female i have lingering doubts as to whether i can still meet a decent man and get married.. you all know how difficult it is for sisters to find an appropriate partner in the congregation.. and now, all the more so that i've learned ttatt.

  i still am bound by low self-esteem, and i do have trust issues, especially with men.

  i am very lonely and so i just keep myself busy with work to avoid depression (although it is also a great source of stress).. any other single females out there having similar thoughts?.

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  rocketman

  SoWhatnow, what I'm saying is that women who are younger, thinner, and prettier are naturally going to be more attractive to men.

  If a guy wants to date older women, fine. There are sites like OurTime.com that specifically cater to those who wish to date older men/women.

  What bothers me is when men are condemned by women who think that a guy should, for some reason, eschew younger, more attractive women in favor of older ones.

  Forrest Heathen said she found it "disgusting". I called her on that, because it's simply natural.

  In evolutionary terms, a younger, fitter woman is perceived by males as more fertile, thus there will likely be more success in passing on his genes. It is natural for a man to seek a woman who looks more fit. I'm not saying he has to, or commenting on whether he should or should not. I'm saying don't condemn him for it.
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  I'm afraid I'd be single for life

  by ohnightdivine in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  this is quite embarrassing for me to share, but as a 30+ year old single female i have lingering doubts as to whether i can still meet a decent man and get married.. you all know how difficult it is for sisters to find an appropriate partner in the congregation.. and now, all the more so that i've learned ttatt.

  i still am bound by low self-esteem, and i do have trust issues, especially with men.

  i am very lonely and so i just keep myself busy with work to avoid depression (although it is also a great source of stress).. any other single females out there having similar thoughts?.

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  rocketman

  Forrest heathen wrote: "It used to disgust me how these guys overlooked some very nice women because they wanted a younger, thinner, prettier bride".

  Men are pretty much genetically programmed to seek younger, prettier women. I'm often perplexed as to why men are blamed by women for seeking what they are essentially programmed to seek. We want them because WE find them attractive. Why should we be bound by what YOU think we should find attractive?

  Now, I'm sure the 30-something sisters you are referring to are probably fine women, and perhaps quite attractive. But if a guy has a chance to date a girl who is younger and even prettier, well, he will likely do just that. It should not be news that men like women who are "younger, thinner" and "prettier". Men should not be condemned for wanting to follow through on what they naturally desire.
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  HOW TO AVOID THE A-HOLE SPIRIT OF SOME HERE...

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  1) take meds for your megalomania and delusions of grandeur.. .

  suggestions welcome.. .

  dd.

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  rocketman

  I think you should name names.
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  World's greatest website JW.ORG ?

  by Pterist in

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  http://jwtalk.net/forums/topic/14030-jworg-greatest-website-in-the-world/.

  thoughts, comments, outbursts ;) .

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  rocketman

  Even the jw members at jw talk are calling it a fake.
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  Trademark office rejects Watchtower's application for "JW.Org" logo

  by AndDontCallMeShirley in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  http://tsdr.uspto.gov/#casenumber=85896124&casetype=serial_no&searchtype=statussearch.

  even though watchtower's application has been rejected, they will be allowed to use the logo because it is for religious usage and will not be confused with commercial products.. the trademark office did note this:.

  indeed, numerous other marks are registered reflecting the letters j and w:.

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  rocketman

  Yes, the Janitor's World is definitely appropriate.

  I also noticed that the charter description mentions "scientific". I'd hate to think that their litertaure is scientific.
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  Richard Dawkins defends “mild pedophilia,” says it does not cause “lasting harm”

  by chrisuk in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  http://www.salon.com/2013/09/10/richard_dawkins_defends_mild_pedophilia_says_it_does_not_cause_lasting_harm/.

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  rocketman

  Simon says:" The problem with that argument is that there are clearly degrees of both slavery and racism.

  A lynchmob and someone clutching their purse more tightly when a member of another race approaches are both manifestations of racism.

  I would suggest that one is a more "mild" form and one is not."

  I said it was a slippery slope (clearly an over-used expression, which makes me wonder why I used it). By claiming that there are mild forms of something bad or wrong, yes, different degree is implied.

  But we are talking about pedophilia. And I used racism and slavery as examples because they, like pedophilia, are unacceptable in ANY form.

  To the less religiously inclined - This is all about your boy Mr Dawkins, and so all of a sudden we're drawing fine lines. I'll say it again - if the Watchtower published an article and categorized a form of pedophilia as "mild" you'd all be blowing a gasket - NO ONE would be defending the Watchtower. And if some JW apolgist were to try to draw the same fine line, you'd all be jumping all over him/her.

  Dawkins' statement in no way affects his scientific credentials, or evolution theory, for that matter, so what are you so worried about?
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  Richard Dawkins defends “mild pedophilia,” says it does not cause “lasting harm”

  by chrisuk in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  http://www.salon.com/2013/09/10/richard_dawkins_defends_mild_pedophilia_says_it_does_not_cause_lasting_harm/.

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  rocketman

  if the term "mild pedophilia" appeared in JW publication, you'd all be screaming.

  To me, part of the problem is that Dawkins catagorizes pedophilia and says that there is a "mild" form. I think that is part of what is getting some people upset. Creating degrees of something like pedophilia is a slippery slope, just as creating degrees of slavery and racism.

  Also, I think we do judge actions in the past by our standards today. Don't we strongly condemn the slavery of Africans that occured here centuries ago? We don't try to explain it away by saying that the standards of that time were different, do we? No, we roundly condemn it based on our sensibilities and standards.
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  Shunning Makes us Joyful - Another Blast on Jehovah's Trumpet

  by cofty in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  like all the best comedy this is hilarious and agonising in equal measure.. if you have not bookmarked the jehovah's trumpet blog do it now.. shunning makes us joyful .... "fiends, we are the happiest people on earth because of true worship, and this includes the practice of shunning our closest loved ones...".

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  This site is excellent. It's like The Onion For JWs.
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  A supremely confident and sure woman is so sexy...

  by Comatose in

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  2. friends

  i have always been attracted to very confident and self-assured women.

  so sexy.

  example - a girl who may not look like a skinny stick model at the beach in a bikini and rocking it.

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  I don't go for those qualities. If they are confident and self-assured, they might not be inclined to be submissive, and I might not be able to dominate them in true JW fashion. They could even challenge my role as family head.
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  Serena Williams, has she peaked at 32

  by designs in

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  serena got her earliest exit at wimbeldon.

  still ranked #1.. for athletes at this level of play are the 30s where the wear and tear start showing.

  seems with the french open and now wimbeldon there are a new young crop of top athletes beating the seasoned pros.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsox35ca1so.

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  rocketman

  I'll comment only on the Tennis aspect:

  There is a clear changing of the guard going on in women's tennis. But I would not count Serena out of any tournament, even though she's made three early Grand Slam exits this year.

  That said, Eugenie Bouchard and Simona Halep bear watching. The women's game, right now, is as wide open as it's been in a long time.

  There are also some signs, milder but signs nonetheless, that the Big Four's (Nadal, DJokovic, Federer, Murray) grip on the men's game might finally be eroding. But that will take time, especially as long as DJokovic and Nadal are around.