My life has finally started to get better. I moved back home to go back and finish my degree. I really miss my man now and I really want to move back with him. Problem is, nothing would be right until I finished school. I should finish school, right? I still have 2 years without him then, but I guess love grows fonder when you are farther apart. Anyways, about the abortion issue, I had 2 of them in 2001. I regret it more than anything else in this world. I was young, stupid and scared. Now that I want to get pregnant, I am not getting pregnant. I am sleeping with my man unprotected and nothing is happening! will I ever be able to have children again? My period IS coming every month, so that is a good sign isn't it? Does anyone out there know anything on this issue? What can I do to become pregnant or even check if I can? I need all the help I can get on this!
Mercedes
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Abortion and post pregnancy
by Mercedes inmy life has finally started to get better.
i really miss my man now and i really want to move back with him.
problem is, nothing would be right until i finished school.
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Selfish Mates
by Mercedes incan somebody please help me with my problem?
i have this boyfriend, who is on probation for drugs and kicking the crap out of one of his friends.
he drug me down to kc with him & during that time my car broke down and so i have been sitting at his gay fathers house for 8 months without a car & job.
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Mercedes
Can somebody please help me with my problem? I have this boyfriend, who is on probation for drugs and kicking the crap out of one of his friends. He drug me down to KC with him & during that time my car broke down and so I have been sitting at his gay fathers house for 8 months without a car & job. I am jsut going to school online. Well, all my car needs is a transmission and my boyfriend hasn't even helped me. But when his car broke down, he goes out and buys a new camero. What about me? am I being selfish? I have been sittin around for 8 months without nothing just for him. He's the one who is suppose to be in trouble, not me, so why do I have to pay for it? It seems as though the evil people are the ones who get everything. My boyfriend was a drug dealer, he physically abused me, and I seem to be the one paying for it? I'm not jealous of his car, but I feel like he doesn't care about my needs. A person can only sit in a house so long before they go crazy! Any thoughts on this?
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living with in-laws
by Mercedes inis anyone out there living with in-laws?
or just living with your significant other's parents?
well, i am living with my boyfriends father...who is gay.
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Mercedes
Is anyone out there living with in-laws? Or just living with your significant other's parents? Well, I am living with my boyfriends father...who is gay. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against gays; I actually have a few gay friends. Anyways, his father is always saying things to get at me and piss me off. Everyone keeps telling me to just ignore it, but it is very hard to when he does it 24-7. In the last month, we have gotten into a couple of big fights. Well, the other day, I woke up at 6:30 am to make my boyfriends lunch for him for the day when he is at work. His father started in on me about my drinking and driving. I used to be a real party animal, then a drank and drove and ran my car into a telephone poll, and I am lucky I am alive. Since then, I have turned my life over to God and havent' had a drink in a very very long time. And I feel A LOT better now. But anyways, I told his dad to please quit b/c I wasn't in the mood (not at 6:30 in the morning). He then kept going so I told my boyfriend that me and his father can't live together and this is the reason we need to find our own place. We are just getting on our feet, that is why we are living with his father. Rent runs REAL HIGH!! Anyways, his dad took it in a mean way, which I didn't mean it in a mean way, and walked off and called me a bitch. I then followed him and asked him what he called me. He then got up in my face and was ready to hit me and yelled "bitch!" Then he started going off telling me that I didn't respect him and then started calling me all the bad names girls are called. He even then tried telling my boyfriend that I was staring at guys' dicks (through their pants) when they came over!! Crazy, huh? For the rest of the day he kept trying to yell at me, but I just ignored him. He even told me that I was no saint so I shouldn't act like that. I'm just trying to get better. Lastly, I go to school over the internet, and I had a law test that day due by 1pm, and he shut the phone lines off. That was the last straw. He calls me childish, but look what he is doing and he is 50!! My boyfriend is stuck in the middle, but I don't want to be near his dad or have anything to do with him. How can I do this without hurting my boyfriend? Am I to blame too? (Sorry this is soo long I just need some good advice)
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Keep or dump
by Mercedes ini need some advice.
i have been dating this guy for 3 years.
of those 3 years, he has cheated on me many many times, but i can only prove some.
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Mercedes
Thank you all for your great responses. You all are very kind.
Robdar, u r right, I did love him when he was hurting me, and u r right, I don't love him as much now. I moved away with him, away from my family, and am attending my 4th year of college over the internet. I also am not employed right at this moment which is why I have a lot of time on my hands to think. I also miss my family a lot, and have also got closer to God. My eyes are slowly, but surely, opening up. I just wish that I could get out of the denial stage. I know I got a lot going for me, I even got opted to model. But none of that matters to me. I want a honest boyfriend so bad whom I don't have to worry about while finishing college, one I can have children with, and one I can grow old with and be worry free. I have never loved anyone like I have my boyfriend and that scares me. I don't know if I could love anyone as much as I love him. Everytime I tried to leave him, I would just look at his sad face and then I couldn't do it. Is there even a possibility that he CAN change? At all?
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Keep or dump
by Mercedes ini need some advice.
i have been dating this guy for 3 years.
of those 3 years, he has cheated on me many many times, but i can only prove some.
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I need some advice. Please!!! I have been dating this guy for 3 years. Of those 3 years, he has cheated on me many many times, but I can only prove some. He has cheated on me with the mother of his child, and even young girls that his friends dated that used to come over and hang out with us. He even was hitting me at that time. He even gave me black eyes. It wasn't pretty. Well, things have been going good for the past 6 months, but I still dwell over what he did to me, and I am having a hard time getting over it. A really really hard time. I would dump him, but he has come such a long ways from what he used to be. He is really sweet and sensitive now. But the thing is, how long will this actually last? Every time he hangs out with his new friends and their girlfriends, I feel threatened. Not because I am ugly or anything, but because he has done it sooo much. And he has always cheated on me with people of way lower standards than me. Why do guys do that? The least they can do is find someone better looking to cheat on me with. What should I do? I really love him and want it to last with him, but am I fooling myself? Are there ways to get past the past? Help!!!
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JW's - cult or no cult?
by Mercedes inmaybe someone can explain to me a little about jehovah witness's.
so far, almost everything that i have heard about them is bad.
why don't they believe in christmas?
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Thanks for the great info. It is really helpful!!!
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JW's - cult or no cult?
by Mercedes inmaybe someone can explain to me a little about jehovah witness's.
so far, almost everything that i have heard about them is bad.
why don't they believe in christmas?
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Excuse me, Sandnigger, I know a lot about the background of my religion, thank you very much. I've been a Catholic for 21 years and enjoyed every bit of it. Being a JW is A LOT worse, A LOT worse than being Catholic. Any more comments...?
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JW's - cult or no cult?
by Mercedes inmaybe someone can explain to me a little about jehovah witness's.
so far, almost everything that i have heard about them is bad.
why don't they believe in christmas?
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Mercedes
Maybe someone can explain to me a little about Jehovah Witness's. So far, almost everything that I have heard about them is bad. Why don't they believe in Christmas? Why don't they believe in the crucifix? Why do they believe that only 144,000 people go to heaven? That is sooo stupid that they believe that. Their beliefs are soo crazy!!! I don't mean to offend anyone either. I had a friend who turned into a JW and she is now weirder than hell. She won't even talk to me b/c I am Catholic or something. Why does this religion put down all other religions? What are some other of their weird beliefs? Why don't they believe Jesus was crucified on a cross? Maybe someone out there can explain a little bit about this religion to me.
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Satan Claus
by SwedishChef insanta claus takes the place of god in the holidays.
similarities between santa and god:.
quality of santa claus #1:.
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Mercedes
What are you exactly talking about?
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Satan Claus
by SwedishChef insanta claus takes the place of god in the holidays.
similarities between santa and god:.
quality of santa claus #1:.
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Mercedes
You sound like you are a very troubled person. To start off, God doesn't control peoples lives nor does he destroy them. We do it all on our own. He also doesn't demand people to worship him, they just do it because they want to. God makes children and adults happy too. Just because your life apparently isn't going the way you want it to doesn't mean everybody elses life sucks. You are right, Santa does bring families and friends together one day a year, but God brings them together all year around. Sorry your family life doesn't go the way you want it either, but don't blame God, blame YOURSELF!! Everyone reaps what they sew; even you!! God is definitely NOT insecure, but it sure sounds like somebody else is!!!!! Again, don't blame God for your problems. And I don't know what all happended in your family, or what maybe you did to somebody else that you feel guilty about, but God is not at fault for children being molested, satan is. you should know that. God also doesn't demand people to thank him. People do it because He does a lot for them. If Santa and God don't exist, does satan exist? You should have no problem answering this one. Or do we need to wait till God destroys you to find out this question?