phoenixrising ...
I agree with your thoughts.
All these people in the military that don't know what they are or who they are don't belong there. Them gays, queers, skirts and others don't belong there. There should only be real men.
In the old days, as my father told me, when you went to the outhouse with pages of a Sears catalog to clean your butt and walked to school in waist-deep snow without shoes, it made you tough.
So sad, as you say, we are "pussing out."