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  Did you ever buy from Ebay?

  by JH in

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  what would you love to find on ebay, that you can't find anywhere?.

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  berylblue

  Sex.
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  10 things to do before you die....

  by lfcviking in

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  in no particular order, how about..... 1. do a sky dive/bungee jump.

  2. meet the ruler of your country.

  3. go to a football world cup final.. 4. do a streak whilst pissed out of your head.

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  berylblue

  I've suddenly decided I want to ride a horse. I'm a big thoroughbred racing fan - I can pretend I'm riding Seabiscuit. I want to see Santa Anita Race Track and see the statues of Seabiscuit and George Woolf.
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  Why exactly do you come to this board?

  by R.Crusoe in

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  i wondered if anyone, after starting to post here after so long being worried about doing, now just does it because they acn and hasn't stopped to ask why the still feel the need or even pleasure.. so why do you come here?.

  do you know?.

  it's not easy to completely explain what it is substiruting for imo!.

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  berylblue

  I come here on and off now - this is the longest in quite some time I've hung around. Usually because I'm lonely and depressed and need to connect.
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  Women - Do You Know What Men Really Want in a Relationship ?

  by flipper in

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  no, it's not just sex !

  lol!

  contrary to popular opinion !

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  berylblue

  I imagine most men want genuine respect, recognition for their efforts, a life free from nagging, and appreciation.
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  Men - Do You Know What Women Really Want in a Relationship ?

  by flipper in

  1. jw
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  i heard a woman being interviewed on a radio station this morning and thought this would be an interesting subject to discuss !

  in the interview this woman stated that , " men many times only hug you or touch when they want to have sex .

  if more men saw that holding hands in public, or the need to reach out to touch a woman affectionately outside of the bedroom , put your arm around her casually- without any expectations , more men would end up in the bedroom later with a woman who feels she has been loved throughout the day !

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  berylblue

  I'll tell you what I'd like - other than sex - I would like to do something exciting once in a rare while. I would like to do something romantic. I finally got up the nerve to point out that we did not go out for our five year anniversary - and he said, OK, we can go out for Valentines Day - and PROMPTLY INVITED HIS SON ALONG. Fortunately his son was as appalled as I was.

  But we never went.....

  Life CANNOT be all work. It CANNOT be all worry. Just like in the thread on racism, as I mentioned that we all need to move on from the past, my man needs to get over the horrible things which happened to him because over ten years later, there is NOTHING anyone can do about it.

  (His wife and daughter falsely accused him of heinous crimes.)

  Now I can't imagine what it's like being thrown in prison for something you didn't do (the charges were dropped eventually because he was innocent), but to relive it over and over and just reject all suggestions of how to get help, etc....

  I'm sorry - I'm just really hurting and I'm so lonely and depressed. Please - just take me out once every few months. I don't ask for anything other than that, really.
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  Stop buying things made in China

  by joelbear69 in

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  reasons.. 1. china has a horrible human rights record.. 2. they are evaporating the us economy.. stop buying.

  tell your store manager you won't buy their products..

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  berylblue

  Please - do NOT bother a store manager with stuff like that. We have ZERO influence on what our buyers purchase, and from where. We've got enough to deal with, smiling through every self-entitled rant our customers treat us to, without customers complaining about in which particular third world cess pool sweat shop our sh*t is made.

  HOWEVER....If you really feel strongly about it, ask for or find the CORPORATE PHONE NUMBER and speak with someone a bit higher on the food chain than the lowly store manager.

  PS I agree with you in principle, but I don't see how we can do much about it.
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  Men - Do You Know What Women Really Want in a Relationship ?

  by flipper in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i heard a woman being interviewed on a radio station this morning and thought this would be an interesting subject to discuss !

  in the interview this woman stated that , " men many times only hug you or touch when they want to have sex .

  if more men saw that holding hands in public, or the need to reach out to touch a woman affectionately outside of the bedroom , put your arm around her casually- without any expectations , more men would end up in the bedroom later with a woman who feels she has been loved throughout the day !

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  berylblue

  Flying - it doesn't play - But I'm sure your thoughts were very comforting.
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  Men - Do You Know What Women Really Want in a Relationship ?

  by flipper in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i heard a woman being interviewed on a radio station this morning and thought this would be an interesting subject to discuss !

  in the interview this woman stated that , " men many times only hug you or touch when they want to have sex .

  if more men saw that holding hands in public, or the need to reach out to touch a woman affectionately outside of the bedroom , put your arm around her casually- without any expectations , more men would end up in the bedroom later with a woman who feels she has been loved throughout the day !

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  berylblue

  I think many women think they can have it all - but we can't. None of us - male OR female - can. We have to decide to be happy with what we've got, as long as what we've got is not abusive. I'm in a situation right now which is damned depressing. I need to take my own advice and realize that, despite the lack of certain things, what I have is pretty wonderful. Many women would be thrilled to be in my shoes. Just not my bed. LOL
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  10 things to do before you die....

  by lfcviking in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  in no particular order, how about..... 1. do a sky dive/bungee jump.

  2. meet the ruler of your country.

  3. go to a football world cup final.. 4. do a streak whilst pissed out of your head.

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  berylblue

  I did that once and only once, and the memory is still vivid, poignant and simply amazing.

  WOW!!! I'm so jealous!!!

  I'd give just about anything for that...

  I've paid very dearly for it. Yet I'd do it again in a New York minute. The memory still renders me breathless.
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  10 things to do before you die....

  by lfcviking in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  in no particular order, how about..... 1. do a sky dive/bungee jump.

  2. meet the ruler of your country.

  3. go to a football world cup final.. 4. do a streak whilst pissed out of your head.

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  berylblue

  Make love- with nothing hold either partner back... None of this JW sh*t... Just an intensity, without feeling bad for it...

  I did that once and only once, and the memory is still vivid, poignant and simply amazing.

  It was before he and I really knew one another; before relationship issues could spoil the magic and sheer sensuality.Since I was married at the time, we couldn't have a relationship. But I have never forgotten either him or that night and I know on my deathbed who and what I will be remembering.