Uhm, 'best advice in 42 years' is probably a bit exaggerated. But you're welcome.
I was thinking about a non-JW father of a young brother I helped (the one who plays soccer in a team, I talked about him another thread where nobody believes me). This father HATED JW. When I met him the first time, I wanted to make a joke: "Hi, I'm Michel. You might have heard about me: I am the guy who is brainwashing your son." Wrong! He appeared to be a pretty aggresive guy and almost threw me of the stairs. Ouch... But later on he appreciated my attitude, because he saw I allready was quite critical towards JW. And allthough he really hated JW, he liked talking with me.
Anyway, this father really loved his son. He came to some meetings when his son had talks. He came to the circuit meeting when his son was baptized. And so did his non-JW sister.
Talking about that: my DF-father came to my baptism, as well as my non-JW sister. My non-JW grandfather sometimes brought my grandmother to the meetings. Actually, I remember more and more non-JW's who accompanied their spouses from time to time.
Wow, non-JW's are not so bad after all!