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  Deliberately Avoiding the "G" and "L" words in their Videos

  by steve2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  now that we have had a "sneak" preview of some of the videos for the upcoming 2018 jw regional conventions, we have opportunity to stand back and ponder their content, including their use of language - or in this case, their avoidance of certain words.

  in this post, i focus on what i think is a "quaint", if not peculiar, avoidance of certain words that seems to have become a jw organization practice: they avoid use of the actual words "gay" or "lesbian" in any of the videos - even in people playing the roles of being gay- or lesbian-friendly.

  a case in point is the preview of the video featuring the jw woman purchasing an item in a store where wrist bands are given away with purchases.

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  They used gay in that wife of Lot video, when the daughter brought home work colleagues, but avoided lesbian - referred to 2 mums instead.

  and wasn’t there a Young People Ask along the lines of Am I Gay?
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  In one sentence, can you pinpoint a single event that woke you up?

  by Brian J in

  1. watchtower
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  my turning point: serving on a child abuse judicial case.

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  I was probably PIMO most of my adult life, trapped by fear of the unknown. Then I fell in love with another man and snapped into POMO as the only route to survival.

  6 months of being an elder also confirmed what a lot of nonsense it all was.
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  Lurkers

  by Freedom rocks in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  do you think elders and gb members monitor this site to catch people?.

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  See JRJW’s thread https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/4881918752456704/thanks-being-helpful
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  Tight pants Tony discusses dress and grooming on visit to Scotland - Parody

  by UnshackleTheChains in

  1. social
  2. humour

  https://drive.google.com/file/d/1gxtzeublo0io02bcaxupqfgxahijer-m/view?usp=sharing.

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  Now having a flashback:

  I wore a plain grey kilt and that seemed to get some adverse comment. It also caused an explosive argument when I wore it in Athens, Greece as one witness refused to go out on the street with a man in a skirt (the irony being that the traditional Greek fustanella is basically a mini kilt for men)
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  Tight pants Tony discusses dress and grooming on visit to Scotland - Parody

  by UnshackleTheChains in

  1. social
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  https://drive.google.com/file/d/1gxtzeublo0io02bcaxupqfgxahijer-m/view?usp=sharing.

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  In Scotland, a few wore kilts at district assemblies, a lot wore them to kingdom hall weddings.
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  Pillowgate - John Cedars

  by CitizenofEarth in

  1. social
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  is this true?

  is this really true?!.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qirjv48c55m.

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  They don’t seem to like boy on boy or girl on boy but I wonder if there’s going to be advice against girl on girl... or do lesbians fly below the radar?
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  Sister may have had a slight heart attack, do I text her?

  by Xanthippe in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so my cousin phoned and told me my jw sister was taken to hospital with chest pains and it may have been a slight heart attack or possibly she's starting with angina.

  now as some of you know my sisters and brother have had little to do with me for 29 years.

  we've met at funerals, or arranged them, but i just thought today what if she did die?

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  I wouldn’t text, it invites a response or at least opens you to rejection.

  Send her a card, saying how sorry you were to hear she was ill. Get well cards don’t necessarily result in replies but would certainly show you care.

  when I learned my Aunt was dying of cancer last year I wrote to her with memories of the great times we’d had together. She’d cut me out her life 10 yrs ago but I learned that she loved the letter. I never got a reply, but that wasn’t what I wanted, I wanted her to know she had done some lovely things for me as a child that I’d greatly appreciated.
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  Do You Know Any “Gay” Jehovah’s Witnesses?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  of course the religion condemns homosexuality but did you know any gay witnesses?

  i knew some bethelites that were very effeminate and i remember 4 women who were suspected of being lesbians by many in the congregation.

  they eventually moved away and were very vocal against males, especially elders..

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  Welcome to the board Kilian72, from another gay former elder. I was also amused at just how oblivious the holy spirit was...
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  I am getting disfellowshipped

  by CitizenofEarth in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  maybe some of you remember me, maybe not.

  for general information i am now 19 years old, and living by myself.

  for the past 1 year (more like 1.5 years) i have been quietly fading out of the hypocrisy of this organization, but since i still live in the town i grew up in it has been hard, and filled with different challenges.

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  Don’t go, you’re on a hiding to nothing.
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  Do You Know Any “Gay” Jehovah’s Witnesses?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  of course the religion condemns homosexuality but did you know any gay witnesses?

  i knew some bethelites that were very effeminate and i remember 4 women who were suspected of being lesbians by many in the congregation.

  they eventually moved away and were very vocal against males, especially elders..

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  I'm ok as me

  and that's a great place to be.