Is anybody here familliar with the book "Maus"? It was about a holocaust survivor who couldn't cope in the real world. He had constant flashbacks and his relationships were always strained. He also had a strong survival instinct that made him stronger, even though he was scarred.
I've noticed alot of XJW's who leave young tend to have Maus-like experiences. Being shut out from their society and struggling to make a new living. Their survival instincts are tough, but nobody can understand their background and their relationships are always strained.
When I read Maus, I found many paralells between the 2 situations. Vladek was your typical survivor, even though he was very heroic, he has alot of emotional scars from his prior incarceration. So were a lot of XJW's you've left young, namley Jessika. Anyways, I thought it would be something cool to share.