Posts by ColdRedRain

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Grabbing your butt..

by sammielee24 in

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watching the clip of george bush sr patting terri hatchers ass after lunch and a kiss on the cheek makes me wonder about a few things.

first - at what level of intimacy do you allow said pat or grab?

would you let an acquaintance do it?

ColdRedRain

I think he's been hanging around Clinton too much. Time to split them apart.

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Nosferatu's School of Dating - Lesson 2.1 - The Approach

by Nosferatu in

now that you've done your practice on starting conversations with strangers, it's time to actually approach women.. first of all, let's cover what not to do when approaching a woman:.

1) never approach a woman from behind.

you will startle her.

This whole nice guy/jerk dichotomy is overblown and false. A woman with enough sense in her head will go for neither, from my experience. She would go for the assertive guy. The guy that doesn't go out and seek trouble, but who will not back down when he sees trouble.

She will appreciate a guy that has a backbone but doesn't go about beating people with that backbone. For instance, don't pay for her dinner until you guys are serious, and don't expect her to pay for your dinner.

If she tries to zing you on certain faults (Like your lack of income or the humbleness of your car, etc) don't get huffy and defensive. Come back with something witty, and say it in a confident manner.

For example, I don't drive, and I get mocked about it constantly by the women who I tend to date (Affluent suburban women). However, I ride it off by saying "Hey, it's much cheaper to ride than to go to the health club and I don't have to use other people's sweaty gym equipment."

If you get defensive about the fault, then the woman sees you as being emotionally weak and she will never respect you.

Also, don't try to smother her. Let her come to you, not the other way around. You can't make people do what they don't want to do.

Again, that's at least if she has sense. If she doesn't have sense, she would go for the abusive jerk and if you try to be the abusive jerk type, you deserve the STD's and emotional baggage these gluttons for punishment carry.

Sane women don't like being abused. If you call a woman "fat", even in a joke, she will get highly offended. If she likes being talked down to and verbally abused, then she will abuse you. If you're looking for a quick lay from these types that enjoy verbal abuse, go ahead, more power to you. However, don't cry if you find out you have herpes.

Also finally remember, WOMEN ARE PEOPLE TOO! BECAUSE THEY'RE ANATOMICALLY DIFFERENT FROM YOU DOES NOT MEAN THEY'RE DIFFERENT CREATURES! Think if you were around a smothering and insecure but "nice" girl. Unless you're desperate, (And if you are, you probably have an unresolved mental issue) you would run the other way. Don't expect not to be the same because you're "nice" and you deserve it because you're "nice".

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Minneapolis/Saint Paul Craigslist Rant And Raves on JW's

by ColdRedRain in

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http://minneapolis.craigslist.org/rnr/.

check it out.

and yes, i'm the same lee from south minneapolis.

ColdRedRain

http://minneapolis.craigslist.org/rnr/

Check it out. And yes, I'm the same Lee from South Minneapolis. Everything negative they say about me is a filthy lie.

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YAHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

by The Mr Bong Show in

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hey all in yahoo that remember me its me rusty or aka web_reaver or aka jw_lover2003 and aka the mr bong show givve it up whooooooooooot whooooooooot

ColdRedRain

Hey rusty, it's Lee!

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Single and ready to mingle

by betty boop in

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first, i wanted to say i haven't posted in a really long time and i am happy to be back!.

second, i was thinking that there are a lot of smart people from all over the world and perhaps its a good idea to put my cards on the table.

i live in nyc, which i love but its so hard to meet quality guys.

ColdRedRain

Boop, you have a PM.

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Hi im new

by NikolaW in

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hi my name is nikola and i just would like to find out more about the faith really.

my history is that i am brought up in the christian faith by my grandparents in the united reformed church.

then stopped going when i was 10 years old.

ColdRedRain

Hi Nikola! Welcome to the board. Like you, I'm also on the Autistic spectrum (Asperger's/PDD).

You're trying to find a church that's tailor made for you, however, I'm sorry to say, no such churches exist. There are one of 3 options: Find a group of worshipers that would agree with you the most, but not completely (Non Denominational Churches are based on the idea of freeform belief), go back to the JW's and have privately held differing beliefs (unlikely) or worship on your own.

Also, have you ever thought why you don't celebrate holidays? Is it because you might think they have pagan origins? Is it because of what you yourself know to be wrong or just the way you were brought up? Anyways, it'll be fun to hear from somebody else on The Spectrum on this board! Later!

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Single and ready to mingle

by betty boop in

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first, i wanted to say i haven't posted in a really long time and i am happy to be back!.

second, i was thinking that there are a lot of smart people from all over the world and perhaps its a good idea to put my cards on the table.

i live in nyc, which i love but its so hard to meet quality guys.

ColdRedRain

You have 3 strikes against you, babe. 1, I don't know what you look like. 2, You live too far away, 3, if I were to tell you my stats, I would automatically be disobeying the 12th commandment.

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XJW Meetups: They're not singles bars, dammit.

by ColdRedRain in

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ok, i just had to vent.

i found out somebody in our local minneapolis/saint paul meetup has been harassing one of our meetup attendees.

this person has been getting multiple phone calls from this person even though they've been told in a gentle way "i'm not interested, back off, you're old enough to be my dad.

ColdRedRain

Actually, the 11th commandment, per Ronald Regan is "Thou shall not speak ill of a fellow Republican".

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XJW Meetups: They're not singles bars, dammit.

by ColdRedRain in

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ok, i just had to vent.

i found out somebody in our local minneapolis/saint paul meetup has been harassing one of our meetup attendees.

this person has been getting multiple phone calls from this person even though they've been told in a gentle way "i'm not interested, back off, you're old enough to be my dad.

ColdRedRain

I'm by no means interested in her. She's actually attatched right now so even if I was, there's no way I could go out with her. And besides, going out with anybody from the meetup group disobeys the 12th commandment: Thou shall not shitteth in thy own backyard.

But it's kind of been an epidemic. Sad really. Anyways, I just want to tell him that I know what he's been doing and because of him, a friend of mine doesn't want to attend the meetup anymore. He knows who he is.

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XJW Meetups: They're not singles bars, dammit.

by ColdRedRain in

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friends

ok, i just had to vent.

i found out somebody in our local minneapolis/saint paul meetup has been harassing one of our meetup attendees.

this person has been getting multiple phone calls from this person even though they've been told in a gentle way "i'm not interested, back off, you're old enough to be my dad.

ColdRedRain

Ok, I just had to vent. I found out somebody in our local Minneapolis/Saint Paul meetup has been harassing one of our meetup attendees. This person has been getting multiple phone calls from this person even though they've been told in a gentle way "I'm not interested, back off, you're old enough to be my dad." This guy has scared off an otherwise interesting person that can give good insight on the JW's.

I currently attend school with this person, and quite frankly, it's sad that she no longer attends the meetups because this middle aged man keeps on harassing young women.

I wish more XJW's would treat the meetups as support gatherings and not a pickup bar, and also remember the 12th commandment: Thou shall not shitteth in thy own backyard.