try-I am laughing out loud. One of two things here. If you are real then you will hear this. If your as I am begining to see and that is jaded to others that need help I am singing to a bag of jellybeans. I can not get back what false doctrine has taken from me. Time with my loved ones. That is gone. I accept that. In fact I need them not. All I need in my life I have. Right Now. But, not everyone is as lucky as me. I think of all the children and a 50 year old who leaves the jehovah Witnesses is a child is quite lost. Not all, that is true, but for those that are alone or lost I will be there. And when the elders and other people try to screw with them and there is just no nice way to put it...Screw with them I will be there. Here,,,in books...All around them. I will be support. The WTBS is not the cure to all problems but the ex's that I meet, they have a hard time. They sometimes rant and rave, cry. They truly belive they have betrayed their god. Its all good; I care. Real love is stronger than a false god. (How dumb that sounds I know) How much experince do you have with domestic violence? What do you think of that? This "why" you ask is like that these people are abused. What do you know of A.A. combine the two and now you are closer. What do you know of being ruined by religion? If you understand any of this you will being just begin to see. Understand...That is harder. Be willing to help. Everyday I wonder if the people leaving really care that I am willing to help them. I just offer it. I have personally known people who leave there husbands or parents with nothing but the clothes on thier back. One person only had her pajamas but she was not going to wait for her father to smack her in the face again. Abuse is everywhere but if you go against the organization it is a guaruntee.