Welcome to the board TG.
If I were you, I would go to Randy Watters website, www.freeminds.org, scroll down to "How I helped my family leave the WT." There is a wealth of information on how to plant ideas without arousing too much suspicion.
Under present circumstances, I recommend not having children until this situation is resolved. My children grew up in a divided household (I was the JW) and it was really hard on them, not to mention my husband.
Good luck.
Patty