Hm-m-m-m, let me see -
I was timid, and kept a fairly low profile, so I received little direct criticism counsel, but I remember the PO's wife counseling me to take my 1 yr old outside, instead of to the restroom, because they could hear her crying in the hall (my daughter had better sense than I did!)
I was delighted when long skirts first came out, since we seemed to receive weekly theocratic(tm) counsel from the platform on our skirts being too short (what were we supposed to do - it was all you could buy) - then we got counseled that long skirts were faddish! Make up your mind!
I had an unbelieving husband and worked full time, so I had asked another brother to study with my son. Well, one week my son told me that Bro X couldn't study with him anymore, he didn't know why. When I call Bro X, he told me that one of the elders(tm) had told him he couldn't conduct the study because it was my Jehover given responsility to do it. I called Bro Elder and asked him if he preferred that my son got no study, as I was unable to study with him and do everything else (work full time, attend 5 meetings a week, get 10 hrs in service, work full time, keep house, ad infinitum) and he promptly backed off. Another glowing example of Matt 18.
Aunthill