piz,
I use the term dumbasses in the most loving manner possible. I have tried to avoid its use, but the dumbasses amongst us keep showing their dumbassedness to such a degree that I can't. I will keep trying.
Thanks for your input. But hate speech is hate speech. Religious people can frame it in old texts and books all they wish, but it is stiil hate. It serves no purpose other than to judge others and incite hatred towards them. Gays and lesbians, like it or not, have the legal right to marry in 32 states in the US and in many other countries. As they should. They are hurting no one. And what consenting adults do in private should be of no concern to anyone, and why anyone would give it any thought or energy is beyond rational thought.
The West and industrial nations are rapidly moving away from judging these things. Some theists are so tied up with old texts and books and what they think fairy tale gods believe that they can't think rationally about the topic. If my strong, direct language is offensive, so be it. But my language isn't one millionth as offensive as the hatred - and the damage it has caused - towards gays and lesbians created by old scrolls and belief in make believe fairy tale gods. Gays and lesbians have been discriminated against, many have committed suicide, gone into depression, etc. because of such hate. Some have been murdered, raped and otherwise assaulted simply because of their sexual persuasion and nothing more.
If speaking out in the strongest terms possible in order to mitigate that makes me, in your eyes, a dumbass, then I wear the title proudly. A dumbass I may be in your eyes, but there isn't one thing, not one, that i have stated about this topic that isn't 100 percent accurate.
I will continue to use strong direct language because the time for dumbasses to have opened their eyes, hearts and minds to acceptance is overdue. If they wish to continue hating, fine. But KEEP IT TO THEMSELVES. Bringing it out in the open will lead to the strongest condemnation and ridicule. Deservedly so.
I will stop using the term dumbass when the feeler/perceiver/believers amongst us remain silent or change their hearts.