SoWhatNow,
I told myself NOT to enter an OP about dating, as I have a
bad picker. Please, listen to LisaRose and a few of the others. Having said
that, everyone has a right to want what they want. You shouldn’t judge men who
want an independent woman with her own income. Like a lot of men, I’ve paid for
almost everything associated with dating and I was the sole income earner when
I was married (long, long ago in a galaxy far, far away). So now I won't accept someone who can't or won't pay their fair share.
For over 2 decades I’ve been single; most of that time I
wasn’t in or pursuing a relationship. However, I like girls. A lot. Well, girl
parts actually, but that’s another OP. Anyway, when I have been looking for a relationship,
I have an ever increasing list of things that I am looking for and another for
things I won’t accept.
You think you got problems finding someone? Try finding a
blonde, blue-eyed, beautiful, brainy, busty, bisexual who is sane, kind, generous and
rational. Oh, and whose father owns a liquor store.
Obviously with a list like that there are times when I‘ve
had to jettison some of the requirements. On several occasions I’ve waived the
liquor store thing-ey, for example. And since no woman is truly sane and rational,
I’ve had to give up on those too. But I’ve held on to the more important
things.
Otherwise, you seem to be a very nice person with a lot to
give. Do not minimize your gifts. As others have stated, there is a someone out
there for you, looking for you. Good luck.