Lots of people here that are single and loving it.
Count me in on that group. I've been divorced for many years now and have no intention of getting into another relationship. I guess I'm like an independent businessman, I like being my own boss and not having to account for my every movement in life.
What have I learned? Not much. Maybe I've learned a little about myself. (see above). I learned a lot about the U.S. legal system. (I knew those old JW suits would come in handy!) I also learned that even though relationships with those you love are tremendously important, there sometimes comes a point when you have to let go, to acknowledge that while you still love that person, you are no longer IN love with that person.
The bottom line for me, a relationship just isn't worth the effort. I didn't get out of my marriage a tenth, no, not even a hundreth, of what I put into it. So marriage for me is a road once taken, and having taken it, I shall not take it again.
CyrusThePersian