I find that when a JW is told they are wrong about their faith, they will automatically defend their belief often with violent emotions, no matter how weak the point. Put the responsibility on your wife to prove it to you, instead of disproving you. There is a difference.
Ekeziel,
You are so right. I've experienced this firsthand.
A few years ago when I was still hard-core dub, my husband asked me a question at dinner. The question was this:
"If Jesus has been RULING since 1914 does that mean that there are only 902 years left of his THOUSAND YEAR REIGN?"
This question touched touched me deeply. I slammed my dish and walked away. But the more I thought about the more sense it made.
This question was the first of many penetrating arrows that eventually cracked my JW armour. When the hot potato was thrown in my lap, I had to deal with it.
It was the best thing hubby could have done for me.
wanna