Wow, Viv, I would be well and truly pissed off. I don't know how I would handle it, but I would definitely think twice about just saving the cake for him. I guess it depends on when he would find time to come over. You could always throw a little "girl's night" type party, and have someone take a picture of you licking one of the little men. Then you could have the picture blown up so your man could see what he missed out on.
Happyout