Posts by JustMe2

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The real reason the WBATS don't want you in college!!!

by ADJUSTMENTS in

the wbats have ramped up no college for jws once again.

the first time they backed off of it is because they noticed a person flipping hamburgers or cleaning toilets are not able to donate much money... so the wtbats says lets allow them to at least get a 2 year degree, then they can donate a little more... this goes on for awhile, but then the wbats notice that many who go to college are leaving...

well because they gain knowledge and distance themselves from the cult and it's ignorance, have access to outside sources, and eventually learn ttatt!!!

JustMe2

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Non JW girl with a JW guy

by Accio in

i want to talk about my story because i need help and advice and most impirtant a lot of comfort.. one year and a half ago i met a wonderful guy.

he was really nice and supporyed me during hard moments.

i slowly fell in love with him.

JustMe2

I strongly agree with ruderedhead's advice to consider seeking professional help. Also, a physician may be able to help with your migraines, weight loss, etc. Journal writing can be a great way to relieve painful feelings and sort out your thoughts. And, of course, you can always find a sympathetic ear here. But please do seriously consider talking to a professional. It may help you get a better perspective on your situation, deal with the emotions you're experiencing, and gain the strength you need to cope. You CAN find the strength to get through this, even though it doesn't seem so at the time. Take care, and I hope you're soon feeling better.

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Thanks again, Simon, and difference between IE and Google Chrome

by compound complex in

there are some threads already on forum performance.

nonetheless, i wanted to post this:.

i decided to switch to my ie page and open up jwn there.

JustMe2

Obviously not. Help!

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Thanks again, Simon, and difference between IE and Google Chrome

by compound complex in

there are some threads already on forum performance.

nonetheless, i wanted to post this:.

i decided to switch to my ie page and open up jwn there.

JustMe2

I'm trying to make paragraphs.Is it working?

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If you don't believe in God where do you get the strength to cope?

by Miss.Fit in

jw
friends

i know there are some here that are going through some tough times.

some of you do not believe in god.

some are not sure.. i was told recently by a friend to pray to god for help and he would comfort me.. my first impulse is to pray.

JustMe2

Just a few suggestions: If you can't get yourself to go for a walk, ask your husband or daughter to go with you. If necessary, tell them you need THEM to ask YOU. A little external motivation can be a big help. Do you have an old teddy bear or other stuffed animal that can comfort you when you feel down? If not, maybe you could get one. A lot of depressed adults find it's good to always have someone to hold onto, someone who'll always be there and "listen" sympathetically. Also, a soft throw or blanket is good to curl up under. Also, keep the Suicide Hotline number handy, if you should ever need a person to talk to, especially if you're feeling desperate. And know that lots of people here are caring about you and wanting to be of any help we can.

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Icons

by JustMe2 in

i feel like an idiot, but what do the icons stand for?

some are obvious, such as the thumbs up and thumbs down, but others i'm not sure about.

thanks.

JustMe2

Okaayyy, when I read the answer, which was just the text, on my (semi-smart)phone, I thought that was the strangest reply I'd ever seen. Then just now I read it on the computer, and, lo, there are icons there that went with the comments! Who knew? The reply made sense! My question (unclear, I realize), though, was referring to the icons to be used in posting. I realize the question mark, at least one of them, means the post is a question, but is there a difference between the green one and the blue one? Also, what are the blue-I-on-white and the white-I-on-blue? (I'm new at this whole forum thing.) Thanks!

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Icons

by JustMe2 in

i feel like an idiot, but what do the icons stand for?

some are obvious, such as the thumbs up and thumbs down, but others i'm not sure about.

thanks.

JustMe2

I feel like an idiot, but what do the icons stand for? Some are obvious, such as the thumbs up and thumbs down, but others I'm not sure about. Thanks.

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"Welcome" message wording on .com site

by JustMe2 in

it's certainly true that the site is "friendly" and "informative".

i'm concerned about the word "tolerant", however, because some posts can be very blunt and outspoken, and newcomers might not be expecting them to be that way.

perhaps it would be well to add something along the lines of "spirited" or "straightforward" discussion in the welcome message, so newbies won't be surprised and possibly turned off before they see all the site has to offer..

JustMe2

It's certainly true that the site is "friendly" and "informative". I'm concerned about the word "tolerant", however, because some posts can be very blunt and outspoken, and newcomers might not be expecting them to be that way. Perhaps it would be well to add something along the lines of "spirited" or "straightforward" discussion in the welcome message, so newbies won't be surprised and possibly turned off before they see all the site has to offer.

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Your views and ideas on forum areas and organization?

by Simon in

this may come as a shock to some people, but the current forum structure was kind of thrown together without much real thought and then evolved a bit over time.

there are a few things that particularly grate on me and areas where i don't think the subjects work particularly well.

'friends' is a bit vague and becomes a dumping ground, news & world events vs politics & current affairs is hard to decide sometimes, child abuse is a scandal but isn't contained withing 'scandals & coverups' etc.... with a new forum platform imminent, it's a good time to solicit ideas to improve things.

JustMe2

Simon,

How about moving "Discuss anything Jehovahs Witness or WatchTower society related" from "Friends"? And maybe make it more specific to differentiate it from "Bible Research and Study Articles" and "Beliefs, Doctrines & Practices."

Separate "Personal Experiences" from "Reunions." Perhaps include experiences from newbies with others' experiences, or have it a subcategory. (I'm a near-newbie myself: MAYBE someday I'll actually write my own experience!)

Thanks for all your hard work.

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My mother continues with these creepy letters

by sosoconfused in

as i continue to post these letters just to let people see what they can expect through a fade, i hope they are not annoying anyone.. if so please let me know and i will no longer post them.

however i think these letters help you to see how cultish and crazy this religion causes people to become:.

evening <name removed>,.

JustMe2

The book The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships, by Harriet Lerner, might be of help to you. (It's not just for women!) One Amazon reviewer says, "She [Lerner] compassionately and wisely shows how to disengage from the anger and the counter-productive patterns, while staying connected and acting with integrity. However, she also acknowledges the effect that this sort of change can have on other people in the dance, and she provides guidance in maintaining oneself in the face of countermoves." It might very well fit your situation and be of assistance to you as you're endeavoring to cope. It's definitely worth taking a look at. I'm sorry for all you're going through.