Hey dased
Yea I read your story and I know how you feel as I just got devorced on wednesday and its not a good feeling and the shit just dont stop, I have 4 children involed.
The big question is DO YOU STILL LOVE HER?????.
then if you do fight for her, cause it is very hard watching some one you love go down the drain as you try to pull away as I found out that there is a fine line between love and hate and when they become dr.jeckal and mr hind.
so thing that might help you is the book on familys as a x jeh dub has helped me at times in new relationships ......jf