My story - yup I wrote this
by DazedNConfused 21 Replies latest social relationships
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ApagaLaLuz
(((Dazed)))
How's the old saying go? If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you it was always your's to begin with........ Something like that.
It is truely refreshing to hear a story like yours. I will keep happy thoughts for you.
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Lost Diamond
I'd say get out! You are much too good for her! You can't make her love you no matter what. There are so many other women in the world that would deserve your love and affection, but not this one. I'm sorry you had to go through all this.
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kelpie
Another old saying..
Treat em mean and keep em keen.
By your story you have worshipped the ground she walked on. You have spoilt her rotten and she has taken advantage of that.
So be mean for a change.. (not a in a volient way) I mean, step back, take a long hard look at the situation. Give you and her a break.. If she really loves you, she will miss you and come back.
Another saying.. you dont know how good you had it until it was gone.. Let her experience that.. If she really loves you.. she will be back at your side before you know it
Kelps (who has been there done that)
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SPAZnik
(((Dazed)))
Well-written. Thanks fer sharing.
Excellent advice in the reply.
I would add that people do, what people want. People do not change, unless they are made uncomfortable. Could you be making it easy and comfortable for her to continue her actions/patterns? Maybe once you are uncomfortable enough with the whole thing, you will allow yourself to change your approach to or view of the situation.
My heart goes out to you in this painful time.SPAZ
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Mum
I agree with kelpie.
What if she changed? I don't think you would feel any better. You're getting something out of this relationship, or you wouldn't stay in it. It is not only you who is being belittled by this situation. I mean, ask her if she likes being your science project?
Regards,
SandraC
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Brummie
Dazed, its men like you that get us guys a good name.
Seems to me that you are slowly letting her go, you are too kind to just dump her.
Brummie
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jackfrost
Hey dased
Yea I read your story and I know how you feel as I just got devorced on wednesday and its not a good feeling and the shit just dont stop, I have 4 children involed.
The big question is DO YOU STILL LOVE HER?????.
then if you do fight for her, cause it is very hard watching some one you love go down the drain as you try to pull away as I found out that there is a fine line between love and hate and when they become dr.jeckal and mr hind.
so thing that might help you is the book on familys as a x jeh dub has helped me at times in new relationships ......jf
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VeniceIT
Yikes mum kick a man when he's down
well your foot is a lot closer
DnC, sorry to hear about this, I hope it works out for all involved. Matters of the heart make no sense sometimes
Ven