Hi Lady Lee, Fellow Winnipegger!
"This kind of abuse teaches a child that they are worthless. It teaches them to be afraid of the very people they are dependent on to survive. It teaches them to not trust people. It teaches them to be overly compliant and passive or to fight back and become aggressive. It is destructive to the child’s spirit."
I somewhat agree with this statement, but as a JW, you have the fear of dying at armageddon cooked into your brain, and you must please Jehovah by honoring your mother & father. When this is combined with abuse, the child has incredible self-esteem problems, and posesses no self-confidence. I know because I've been there.
I think the thin line between abuse and discipline can be defined by how it is administered. If the parent is bold while administering the punishment, it's discipline. If the parent is in rage while administering the punishment, it's abuse.
The sad thing is being a victim of "discipline" when the child has done absolutely nothing. The child becomes a "punching bag" for the parent to take his/her anger out on. Hell, I've tried to run from it, but when my mother was in a flaming rage, there was no escape.
After a while, I started developing this attitude. Whenever I got mad, I would use the cat as a punching bag. When I got a bit older, I started to realize that I was behaving exactly like my mother, and I made the effort to change my way of directing anger. I'm pleased with the way I've turned out in the end :)