I do not believe in Love at first site or soul mates either. I am too skeptical for that. I do believe in that there is more than one person for everyone.
I have been with my boyfriend 4 years now and I cannot imagine being with anyone else now. But it wasn't love at first site. It took time. Honestly I do not even know how we made it through the first year. I finally had to take a good look at our relationship and ask myself is this what I really want.
But with patience, work and commitment our relationship blossomed.
Now I know if I lost him I would be devastated but I wouldn't die. Him and I both know how to live with and without each other.