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  Child molesters are'nt THAT bad.

  by avishai in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  sorry for the attn.

  getting post, but i am so pissed off tonight that i can't see straight.

  all these f*cks need to be shot.

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  sandy

  Wolfgirl - I can relate to the comment your mother made to you. My Mother said to me: "At least he didn't kill you."

  But I was so F'n pissed when she said that to me! WTF is she thinking, I thought to myself. I never told her exactly what I thought of her. I tried but all I got from her was: "move on", "it's over", "there is nothing you can do about it now".

  I don't know if I can ever truly forgive her for her reaction or really non-reaction when telling her about my father abusing me. I was so upset that she didn't leave him. I wondered if it happened to one of her other children if she would have a different reaction. I know I can never change my Mother's way of thinking. She is crazy and in denial due to her own childhood abuse that she never dealt with.

  The abuse was a secret I thought I would take to my grave. I am still shocked at times that I actually told. I am so happy that I did. Though I have more work to do; I have never been more emotionally stable in my life.

  I learned to deal with the abuse through therapy. I have taken responsibility for my own happiness. There are times when I feel pity for myself but I know now I can change my life. I have the power to stop the cycle of abuse.
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  What do you do at work to pass the time? (fluff)

  by obiwan in

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  2. friends

  we all have down time at work.

  what do you do to pass the time?

  do you try and find other work?

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  Day Dream about winning the Lotto, post here, check my email, pay bills, surf the net for weekend entertainment, occasionally I'll call friends.

  I just planned (while at work) my 4th of July trip to Vegas!!! I'm so excited!!!!

  I really am a hard worker though. I just have free time on my hands everyday. I guess I could look for more work .
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  Movie Recommendation

  by sandy in

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  2. entertainment

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  i saw a really great independent film over the weekend.

  it is called "the eye"; it is a horror movie about a blind girl who gets a cornea transplant so she can gain her eyesight.. once she can see she starts to see dead people and those about to die.. check out the site: http://www.mongkolfilm.com/theeye/index_th.html

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  I saw a really great independent film over the weekend. It is called "The Eye"; it is a horror movie about a blind girl who gets a cornea transplant so she can gain her eyesight.

  Once she can see she starts to see dead people and those about to die.

  Check out the site: http://www.mongkolfilm.com/theeye/index_th.html
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  Sex in the New Book "Learn from the Great Teacher"

  by AlanF in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i just obtained a copy of one of the new releases from the summer jw district conventions, learn from the great teacher.

  this book is oriented towards children, and frankly, is a stereotypical piece of propaganda from the "faithful and discreet slave".

  in some ways the book is incredibly revealing, since it has to break down a number of ridiculous jw teachings into a form that even jw children can swallow, and when those teachings are put into simplest form their ridiculousness is evident to everyone but small children and stereotypically braindead jws.

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  Where do people learn a lot about violence and improper sex and spirits and ghosts? -- Isn't it from watching certain television shows and movies, playing computer and video games, going on the Internet, and reading comic books? Does doing these things bring us closer to God or closer to the Devil and his demons? What do you think? --

  Revision:

  Where do people learn a lot about violence and improper sex and spirits and ghosts? -- Isn't it from watching certain television shows and movies, playing computer and video games, going on the Internet, JWs molesting their children, and reading comic books Does doing these things bring us closer to God or closer to the Devil and his demons? What do you think? --
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  Sex in the New Book "Learn from the Great Teacher"

  by AlanF in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i just obtained a copy of one of the new releases from the summer jw district conventions, learn from the great teacher.

  this book is oriented towards children, and frankly, is a stereotypical piece of propaganda from the "faithful and discreet slave".

  in some ways the book is incredibly revealing, since it has to break down a number of ridiculous jw teachings into a form that even jw children can swallow, and when those teachings are put into simplest form their ridiculousness is evident to everyone but small children and stereotypically braindead jws.

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  LOL @ Rockeman's comment.

  Why do demons supposedly watch only illicit sex? Wouldn't they 'get off' on watching married people too?
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  Do demons flee from the name of God?

  by ClassAvenger in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  alright, i need a question answered, if possible with bible versicles.

  do demons flee when someone pronounces god's name, jehovah?

  i know this is a belief from the jws, but i don't know on what it is founded, or if it is.

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  Demons flee when you turn the light on.

  LOL, that was funny. Confession: Sometimes I sleep with my light on to ward off demons and other scary monsters that like to hide in my closet and under my bed.
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  What are you currently reading?

  by Sirona in

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  2. friends

  as ex-dubs we are free to read whatever the hell we want to read.

  in celebration of that fact (and to give me some ideas on what to read next .

  sirona

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  I am currently reading a book called Bette and Joan. It is all about the 50-year feud between Bette Davis and Joan Crawford.

  They were both very evil and self-centered. I love it!! I love to know all the juicy drama about celebrities.

  I love reading biographies; true crime and self help books.

  I just picked up Dr. Laura's book, Ten Stupid Things Couple Do To Mess Up Their Relationship

  I am going to start reading that this weekend.
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  Women

  by qwerty in

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  sandy

  LOL

  I would say 90% of that describes me.
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  What's the worst sin that you knew a JW commited? Espec. Elders, Bethelites

  by FreeofGuilt in

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  2. beliefs

  the po of my congregation was screwing another elders wife- i have more, but i wanna hear yours!

  kristine

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  One of the Elder's in the KH I used to attend was going (alone) over this single mother's house to "encourage" her.

  It tuned out they were having an affair. I do not know how all the details came out but they were both publicly reproved on the same night.

  It didn't take a genius to figure out what happened. LOL

  The "other sister" and the wife hated each other publicly from that night on.

  The elder was forced to step down and he and his wife stayed together. They moved congregations shortly after that.

  Still, they would all see each other at assemblies. My friends and I enjoyed watching that show.

  The "other sister" was evil; she was always pushing her presence on the husband and wife.
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  Here is something to debate!

  by Aztec in

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  2. friends

  does true love exist?.

  i'm a skeptic by nature, although not necessarily a very logical one.

  i believe in love but i am not sure of the idea of one true love or soulmates.

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  sandy

  I hope we all have this kind of love.

  Something That We Do (Clint Black/Skip Ewing)

  I remember well the day we wed

  I can see that picture in my head

  I still believe the words we said

  Forever will ring true

  Love is certain, love is kind

  Love is yours and love is mine

  But it isn't something that we find

  It's something that we do

  It's holding tight, lettin' go

  It's flying high and laying low

  Let your strongest feelings show

  And your weakness, too

  It's a little and a lot to ask

  An endless and a welcome task

  Love isn't something that we have

  It's something that we do

  We help to make each other all that we can be

  Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently

  The way we work together is what sets our love apart

  So closely that you can't tell where I end and where you start

  It gives me heart remembering how

  We started with a simple vow

  There's so much to look back on now

  Still it feels brand-new

  We're on a road that has no end

  And each day we begin again

  Love's not just something that we're in

  It's something that we do

  We help to make each other all that we can be

  Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently

  The way we work together is what sets our love apart

  So closely that you can't tell where I end and where you start

  Love is wide, love is long

  Love is deep and love is strong

  Love is why I love this song

  And I hope you love it too

  I remember well the day we wed

  I can see that picture in my head

  Love isn't just those words we said

  It's something that we do

  There's no request too big or small

  We give ourselves, we give our all

  Love isn't someplace that we fall

  It's something that we do