Hey Golden Girl, I would have loved to do other, more enjoyable things than to be told I can say my piece and then have to listen to her unload all her feeling on me without any resolution. And that is how I felt, like I was promished one thing and given a much inferior item in it's place. I am frustrated..... The most used word in her diatribe was, "I"!
Maverick
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Boy! Do women love to talk!
by Maverick in"we need to talk"!
men hate to hear those four words coming off of their gf's pouty lips.
we know what they are really saying is, that they need to chew our butts and we need to take it!
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Boy! Do women love to talk!
by Maverick in"we need to talk"!
men hate to hear those four words coming off of their gf's pouty lips.
we know what they are really saying is, that they need to chew our butts and we need to take it!
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Just spent the better part of two hours talking to my lady. She was upset with me and as we talked on the phone she said she really wanted to know what I was feeling. I told her there was no point in us talking face to face because she would interrupt me before I could tell her. She promished to not interrupt me and to be silent and let me have my say....I should have gotten that in writing!
I give her credit for lasting about two minutes before she asked, "Can I just say one thing?" After that she only talked about 85% of the time.
In the end I knew exactly how she feels about our relationship and her needs though I rarely finished a sentence. I never did get to say anything meaningful. After nearly two hours I started walking her back to her car. Nothing was resolved as far as I could tell. She seemed to feel better. I'm glad for her. I should have worked today!
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COs and DOs Stuck in the Fulltime Work Because they Have No Retirement!
by frankiespeakin ini'm talking over 55 years of age that know the gb are frauds, but because they have no retirement benifits worth anything feel forced to hold on to this position.
man that has to be the worst drag ever.
remember to copy all secret corospondance to further expose the gb in thier under handed vicious treatment of its member they may come in very handy in the hands of prosecuting attorneys.
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Maverick
I knew a couple of corporate inspector generals, (CO's) and they lived for Mondays so they could play golf!
As they get older they start to make friends with some rich friends or relatives because they know when they outlive their usefulness to the WTS they are on their own.
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Boy! Do women love to talk!
by Maverick in"we need to talk"!
men hate to hear those four words coming off of their gf's pouty lips.
we know what they are really saying is, that they need to chew our butts and we need to take it!
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Good imput y-all!
Balsam, it's nice to hear the ladies side, (in a hundred words or less)! And hug your husband, I have a 21 year old daughter and I dread seeing her number flash on my caller ID. 99 times out of a hundred her first words are, "Oh my God Dad! or "Your gonna be mad but....!" That one time it is a nice call I feel like I hit the Lotto!
I do care what the ladies have to say and I venture that most other guys do to, but give us a freaking break girls! I can handle ten minutes of the high drama but after that I start to get annoyed, ten more minutes I'm frustrated, ten more minutes, now I'm pissed!
Picture this ladies, me hold the phone to my ear saying, "Really, you don't say?" then holding the phone in the air or setting it down, getting a beer out of the frige, coming back to the phone, putting it to my ear again and after a few seconds making some BS comment so she thinks my listening and then putting the phone down again and looking for the TV remote. Repeat until the GF gets through with her diatribe!
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Cigars, Who smokes them? and where can i get some good ones?
by JV ini've been having the strangest craving for a cigar.
i'm playing a round of golf on sunday and i want to be like darren clarke ( all you golfers know who i'm talking bout ).
any suggestions?
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Cigar International has a great sellection. I love Padrons, very mild, even burning not harsh near the band. Cuban Honeys are good, Optimo Coronas are nice as well. A must is good single malt scotch. Dalmore makes a great cigar scotch. Two ice cubes, a splash of water, a nice Padron 5.5 and that's as close to heaven as you're going to get!
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Boy! Do women love to talk!
by Maverick in"we need to talk"!
men hate to hear those four words coming off of their gf's pouty lips.
we know what they are really saying is, that they need to chew our butts and we need to take it!
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Thanks for the replies. Not all women are yakers and some men are guilty of those same kind of things I mentioned.
But I just get pummeled but the torrent of words and verbal maneuvers. I don't like having to play chess with words, wondering if something I said will be used in ten minutes or ten days to back me into a corner. I have learned to not say what I really feel. As a man I have learned that if what I am saying can be misinterpreted to the negative, it will be! The less I say, the less I have to defend.
My lady is always telling me how she was planning this great surprise or that cool thing to show me she loves me, but because of something I said I won't be getting this kindness now! BS! I used to call her bluff, now I just roll my eyes and walk away.
All men should be glad that rolling your eyes is silent, if your eyes made the sound of marbles rolling on steel the next sound that would accompany it would be the whap of your lady smacking you upside the head. All over the Earth those two sounds would be inexorably linked!
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Boy! Do women love to talk!
by Maverick in"we need to talk"!
men hate to hear those four words coming off of their gf's pouty lips.
we know what they are really saying is, that they need to chew our butts and we need to take it!
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"We need to talk"! Men hate to hear those four words coming off of their GF's pouty lips. We know what they are really saying is, that they need to chew our butts and we need to take it!
Then there is the cell phone, or any phone for that matter. If you can get them off the stupid thing long enough to start to converse hope it does not ring because they will interrupt you, put the hand in your face, and start talking on the phone as they slowly turn their backs on you. If your on the phone with them, which I recommend to keep to a minimum, they will put you on hold when their phone beeps. Warning, never do this to them or your gotta hear those four words from the previous paragraph!
When they talk they expect you to listen, but will get very angry if at some future date you use their own words to discribe something they have done to you. Now your throwing their words in their face! But they tell you they want you to open up so that at some future date they can do just that with your words!
To all of this I say, "Ladies, how about a little less talk and a lot more action!" Maverick, who loves his lady but wishes she'd shut up once in a while!
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One upsmanship...
by hartstrings inwhen i was a regular attender, most of my jw "friends" were pioneers because that is who we spent our days with, lol.
well, it always annoyed the crap out of me when the pioneers would act like they were so special when they were able to get a new publication prior to its arrival at the local kh.
they were basically bragging about their connections.
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You can see where the GB would encourage this kind of one upsmanship. They need to create value in otherwise worthless drivel, and they do this by making it something special to get the publications early. This way it was not so much the content of the things written but the possesion of the things written that becomes the prize.
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Is The Governing Body Guilty?
by Honesty inall i heard the whole time i was a jw is, "satan is working hard to break up the family arrangement in the organisation".
well, the only ones i ever saw breaking up families is the jw religion.
if you leave the religion for any reason you and any of your jw family are publicly estranged from each other with the threat of being df'd hanging over the heads of each of your active jw family members if they have more than minimal contact with you.
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The GB are guilty of being delusional losers, who are like the god they worship. Their god is mean, petty, hateful, and narrow minded, not unlike its creator Rumpot Rutherford.
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How far back are j.w.'s allowed to research the w.t. doctrine?
by hubert in's research russel's and rutherford's teachings once they are baptized?
if not, where in their material does it instruct them not to?
how far back are they "allowed" to research?
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If Dorothy, from the Wizard of OZ, was a JW, when Toto pulled back the curtain exposing the magician, and the manifestation of the Great and Powerful Oz told her,"To pay no attention to that man behind the curtain", she would have replied, "Oh! OK!" turned her head away from the man and listened only to the smoke and mirrors!