Nice post Kilroy, but try better formatting it looks much better and is easier to read my friend.
This type of visit sounds very familiar. Elders are always on the look out for the inactive ones, new orders from Brooklyn have placed pressure on elders in the congregation to do so.
I had a similar discussion with an elder concerning the Organziation, and how it cannot possibly be from God. However, you can get so far, then it seems as though there is no point to any further discussion, they simply turn into self righteous judging pharasees and begin to put you down. It's a worthless task.
I wonder how many elders begin to have doubts themselves after visiting the inactive ?!?