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My introduction

by zakharijah in

ok i think its time i introduce myself... and sorry, its going to be verrry long.. .

i am 32, married, 2 children.

i am french but i live in scotland.. .

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I like these stories of new people waking up.. they are so encouraging. Thank you for sharing your experience.

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How can you update your profile picture? Thanks.

by Poindexter Lionel Humperdique in

could someone please advise how to update our profile picture?

thank you..

where is a good website or thread debunking their shunning practices from the bible?

by Crazyguy in

anybody know where i can really get some good understanding showing from the bible that their shunning practices are not correct?.

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http://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/disfellowship-shunning.php

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How can you update your profile picture? Thanks.

by Poindexter Lionel Humperdique in

could someone please advise how to update our profile picture?

thank you..

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@ Simon..

Would people want to sign in with their Google, Facebook, Yahoo! accounts etc? Won't that be using peoples real names and stuff?

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Faders shunned now?

by Sammy Jenkis in

hi all so my family had their c.a.

last weekend and my mother dropped this one on me, she'll now be treating me as a df'd person per info she received from a talk at the assembly.

apparently a fader should be treated as "bad association" given the fact they up and left the holy "truth" to splash around in vomit.. .

I think there might be some truth to this. I have not 'heard' anything but I am experiencing it as we speak. I vanished form my local meetings some time ago without a trace or a word due to depression. In 8 months I have not received a single shepherding call.. not a single phone call even. Absolutely zero. People from that cong surround me in every direction. I used to spend almost every single day with them.

I have not disassociated myself. I have not been d'fed either. But it seems that to them I suddenly do not exist at all. It's like I never ever existed. Over 30 years of believing in these people, believing in this organisation, and it amounts to absolutely nothing. Zilch.

They can sever and erase you in the blink of an eye. You don't need to be disfellowshipped. The word and gossip just spreads among themselves and you become a non entity.

It's inhuman. They have no care or compassion for anyone. If you don't play their game.. or play ball with their elders. That's it. You are dead to them. They judge, sentence you.. then kill you.

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Update on my fade

by wizzstick in

it's been over 3 months since i first posted after years of lurking:.

http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/253883/1/my-story-a-kinda-newbie-from-the-uk#.ukhopt-yza8.

and what a 3 months it's been.

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Ahhhh... the lack of love...

Love is the one and only single reason to be in or out of of any relationship. A situation could have everything in the world going for it. But if there is no love.. then it's all completely pointless.

What would any of us have to do with God if he had no love..? Nothing. So what are we doing in an organisation where real love does not exist at all?

Wasting time that's what.

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Too many changes mean more changes to come

by Verenda in

i just joined this site after researching the recent 'new light" my daughter is an unbaptized witness, as well as her husband and my grandchildren.

i was baptized in the 80s but i am inactive for years now because of changes and inconsintancies etc.. .

if the sheep and the goats teaching has been changed to happen after the great tribultaion, or after armageddon then this would mean that everyone would not be seperated or judged until after armageddon has occured.

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Thank you Braincleaned for the thought and link.

I'm not sure jumping into another structured organisation is the right move for me right now. I suspect what I need to do is just clear my head and free myself of the debris left by the 'org' and do some simple experiments with God. Just God,. and Jesus, nothing else.. Not too interested in human opinions and 'versions' of what God is or is not. I want to allow God to have a chance to just speak for Himself for a change. I need to have my own real experience of Him I think. Yes, that's exactly what I need.

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Too many changes mean more changes to come

by Verenda in

i just joined this site after researching the recent 'new light" my daughter is an unbaptized witness, as well as her husband and my grandchildren.

i was baptized in the 80s but i am inactive for years now because of changes and inconsintancies etc.. .

if the sheep and the goats teaching has been changed to happen after the great tribultaion, or after armageddon then this would mean that everyone would not be seperated or judged until after armageddon has occured.

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Hello Verenda..

It is indeed an insanely difficult position to find oneself in when you open your eyes and see just what crazy things we have been taking on sheer trust and faith with the leaders of that organisation. None of what they say can be proved or verified.. we must believe it simply because they themselves tell us it is true. Throughout the 130 years of witness teachings they have taken more twists and turns then a drunk snake.

It is sheer lunacy of the highest order. The wickedest of grand deceptions. We have been deceived and lied to at the deepest level imaginable. And we all trusted in them. That is what hurts. It knocks one off balance so badly that it can take years if ever to get oneself straight again. One is left not knowing what to believe any more.. not knowing what is true and what is not true.. one no longer is sure of what God thinks any more.. one's entire faith is shaken to the very foundations.. if not broken entirely. One is left feeling great anger at the betrayal. Where does one go after is avery good question. I have not worked that out for myself either yet. Right now I am nowhere.. in a kind of limbo.. not sure which way to turn or if indeed I should turn anywhere at all. I too still believe in God and Jesus.. and the Bible, but very little else. I think i have stopped looking for something.. and am waiting for something to find me. Despite this uncomfortable uncertain feeling of no longer knowing where I belong I am glad that I am free of the prison that was my time in 'the truth'.. and being set free like a bird from a cage that held it captive there is a certain fear on experiencing real freedom of thought, choice and action for maybe the very first time. It's exciting.. challenging.. full of uncertainty and mystery.. but I like it. It feels right like nothing in 'the truth' ever did. For the first time in a long time I feel like me.. like I am really and truly beginning to find myself and know who I am. My great adventure starts now..

Welcome to life.. :)

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I'am in the Penalty Box! I asked the Circuit Overseer "Who Donates Blood For Jehovah's Witnesses Blood Fragments".

by AuntConnie in

told my husband to put a muzzle on my mouth over the blood dogma.

we all were driving around in field service when the topic of "which fragments would you take if you were in a car accident or cut yourself badly".

said his choice is a personal one, another sister with chronic health problems said she had no problem with the governing body's new light on taking various fragments.

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So does this mean we are now allowed to eat and offer witnesses blood pudding providing it's made with blood fragments?

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I was wondering..

by Dis-Member in

how are the society so happily selling off it's brooklyn real estate for untold millions to clients that they teach and believe will soon have their newly purchased properties pulverised and themselves incinerated when armageddon comes.. should they not be honest and tell all prospective buyers that they won't be owning those properties for very long?

not a word.. they are just happy to take their truck loads of cash though.

that's about as disingenuous as it gets.

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How are the Society so happily selling off it's Brooklyn real estate for untold millions to clients that they teach and believe will soon have their newly purchased properties pulverised and themselves incinerated when Armageddon comes.

Should they not be honest and tell all prospective buyers that they won't be owning those properties for very long? Not a word.. they are just happy to take their truck loads of cash though. That's about as disingenuous as it gets. How can you be selling high priced tickets on a ship that you know is about to sink? Is this what is meant by 'witholding truth' from those that don't deserve to know it?